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| Seppel Posts: 2/2 |
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| Deleted User Posts: 27/-7750 |
Buy condoms, don't catch any STDs, that's about it. Also, don't get attached, you'll probably be having a few more partners(later or sooner in your life), anyway.
Yep. That's full of shit, you realize? Even if you saved your virginity for that 'special' person who you've dated for 10 years before you drop your pants and slide off your belt; It's not going to mean shit a few years later when you figure out they're more annoying than your sister on plane rides. Nope, she's just giving you a free show, this happens all the time in strip clubs, man. You're giving her too much credit, be careful. |
| Snow Tomato Posts: 74/798 |
No, that's pretty much my take on it to. But if he already believes it is super meaningful, he'll overcomplicate it.. and most likely end up regretting it. |
| Deleted User Posts: 3/-7750 |
Originally posted by Jomb Holy fuck! Someone said something smart about sex for the first time IN THE WHOLE ACMLM's BOARD STORY. You win an internet. |
| Clockworkz Posts: 199/984 |
Yeah, I'd probably back down off that, unless you want to stick with her for about three to four more years, when you're both ready.
But for now, you'll have to combat these urges, even if you "don't want to". Remeber; it's all about self control. As long as you don't hop on her like she's the last chopper out of 'Nam, you should be fine. |
| Jomb Posts: 26/448 |
Dont have sex till you can handle it. That means wait till you are at least 50, and too old to have kids 
seriously though, our ancestors were having kids just as soon as it was physically possible, and our whole race seems to have got on just fine. It does'nt have to be the deepest most meaningful experience of your whole freakin life. Just dont start having babies till you want them, and dont get AIDS. Other than that it's only gonna mess your mind up if you buy into society telling you it has to be super meaningful, or you were somehow abused. |
| Snow Tomato Posts: 65/798 |
Well, I can't be too sure... but it doesn't sound like the right kind of a relationship to start introducing sex into. I mean if the whole relationship is built around that... it can't be healthy.
But uh, whatever dude. Just don't do something that you're going to regret alot. I'd say you were too young to emotionally handle that, but my sister lost her virginity at 14 and she's not severely messed up or anything. Just make sure you can handle it. If you say you're morale.. and you'd feel bad doing it this young.. don't do it. I guess the best advice would be to resist the urges until you think you have a handle on the situation. It sounds like you're a little confused. |
| firemaker Posts: 83/194 |
As for that well there isn't much you can do about it. You can't loose those urges just resist them. |
| Riku Posts: 331/1823 |
It isn't sex, it's the fact that I have porn everywhere. Even my girlfriend. My girlfriend strips in front of me and tells me how much she loves me. Is this bad? She doesn't do anything but kiss me. She says I'm cute in my thoughts, but I wish the urge would just vanish. Shes doing that because she knows I like it, in a forced kind of way. I don't lay her, as she doesn't want to, and neither do I. She just does everything for me. She never asks anything of me. |
| Black Lord + Posts: 55/273 |
About the whole age thing... these days thirteen... seems to be an increasing age when kids start doing the deed... Sad but true. I know when I was in middle school 6-8th grade lots of kids that I knew were having their first encounters. Lots of these kids, well most are either severly messed up, sent away, or in jail. |
| firemaker Posts: 78/194 |
My advice being forteen is ttry not to get tempted with porn. Real yes but pixelatd images only mess your mind up. Cause what happens is it trains your brain to react to pixel images of women as opposed to real girls. And at thirteen poeple do do more than kiss and hold hands. Trust me on that one. |
| Deleted User Posts: 266/-7750 |
He was probably physically ready for sex from the time he was 11, but on the emotional level to take it really for what it is, he probably won't be ready til he's 16 or older. I really recommend trying to resist the situation, getting involved in a sexual relationship at a young age is risky (neither one of you is probably ready for what it fully entails on an emotional level). You said you're a moral person, and I really think you're going to have your best bet to stifle these kinds of actions and wait til you're older, I mean come on, isn't the age 13 when kids are just kissing and holding hands?  |
| Gavin Posts: 92/181 |
MathOnNapkins: While I completely understand the point you are making, I think I might also argue that 60% of all sex is a fullfulment of meaningless lust . I do however agree in thinking that 13 is far too young of an age to deal with sex on an emotional level, if not physical. At the same time I think it is worth pointing out that the urges themselves are completely natural and just a part of growing up; it doesn't make you dirty or tainted and is very normal. |
| MathOnNapkins Posts: 133/1106 |
If you are concerned about your morals, that is your own business. I think it's best if you are troubled about it, to think about it in depth. What kind of person do you want to be, and how will these actions affect you? Does it matter to you how your family and friends would perceive it? Do you understand all the risks involved in sex? Personally, I think you're way too young to be getting involved in sex. Everybody I've met who did it that early said they regretted it b/c it was pretty meaningless lust. But again that's your decision. |
| Joachim Posts: 22/38 |
A lot of people look at porn, it isn't unusual for your age, and hormonal urges are expected, just don't let them carry you too far to the point it makes you do stupid mistakes that you'll regret. |
| Riku Posts: 330/1823 |
Well, I'm thirteen, and seem to have certain urges to look at porn. Yes.
I've have at least seven girls to check me, four took, the other three hated my personality. I've been looking at one of them differently, (The others are gone, of coarse) and I can't help but scroll my eyes up and down when she talks. One occurance for instance, she starts talking to me, and I hear NOTHING she says. I just stare at her body. She gives me a look, realizes what I'm doing and teases me. She's all,"Aww...I know I'm pretty, but stop it." One day, we're alone. This doesn't end up sad, but well, those urges sort of went to her too. I was taking my long bath one day, and I didn't lock the door. She comes in and jumps in. I refuse to tell anymore. I'm a teen, and morals mean a lot to me, but what should I do? |
