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| Danielle Posts: 740/6737 |
I agree with what everyone else has said. Being honest is best, and she should know that at least you were honest, and not lying to her face. Just remind her that it doesn't change the way you feel, and that it will grow back.  |
| Cruel Justice Posts: 395/1637 |
The important thing is to have a relationship that you feel comfortable with. As long as you didn't sound like a jackass when you said it, you made the right choice. It's better to be honest than to allow things to drag you around. I'm glad you actually had the balls to say that, I raise my glass to ya!  |
| Anya Posts: 189/1176 |
You did good. Trust me, if you would have lied, she would find out. Maybe not now, but she will.
When I cut my hair real short, my fiancee told me that it didn't look right. And yes, I regret cutting it back then, but there's nothing that can be done about that. What is done is done. |
| Spinal Posts: 24/60 |
I always tell the truth, that way people don't need to think if it's really the truth or something i just say to make them happy. I think you did the right thing, love has nothing to do with the haircut...
(you're not in love with someone becaus they have a nice haircut) |
| Trapster Posts: 956/3604 |
If she thinks that honesty is very important she must be able to take take the truth, even if it sounds negative that particular moment. You have to be able to say what you think without her getting hurt. It can be hard, though. Talk to her about this. And comfort her.
I think you did the right thing. |
| DahrkDaiz Posts: 55/403 |
I've had it cut really short before and I hated it but I'll do it again for her. I'm thinking maybe not completely cut off but just a complete single length all the way around where there's just fuzz on my head, |
| Thoughtless Posts: 260/2405 |
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Wow. That has to be one of the sweetest things I have heard in this life. Should you do it? If you feel the need to do it, then yes. Just make sure you think it through. You don't want to regret this thing in the future. |
| DahrkDaiz Posts: 54/403 |
Well she started to cry over her new hair cut and a thought just occurred to me... maybe should get my hair cut completely off, even shaved perhaps, just so she doesn't have to go through this alone... |
| emcee Posts: 80/867 |
Maybe you should remind her that hair grows back. |
| DahrkDaiz Posts: 53/403 |
Yeah, well she's tore up about it now but there's nothing I can do about that. Just be glad that this won't eat me up inside. |
| Thoughtless Posts: 255/2405 |
You did the best thing.
I mean why lie? What would you gain? You may spare her feelings at the moment but the haircut could've nagged you for awhile and like Riku said if you lied, she may take it as an open invitation to continue cutting her hair that same way. |
| Riku Posts: 241/1823 |
I think that was the best thing for you. If you said you liked it, when you got her hair back the way you wanted it to be, she'd cut it again.
But yeah, I don't like real short, but just short. It's looks better on blondes.  Good choice. |
| DahrkDaiz Posts: 52/403 |
My girlfriend just got her hair cut. Short. REAL short. She sent me a picture of it and I don't like it. She wanted the honest truth and I told her that I didn't like it. But I stressed that I still love her and that I still thought she was pretty. Was it a bad mistake to be completely up front with her? |
