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| Cruel Justice Posts: 327/1637 |
Before you know it another 18 years will pass by and you'll be bald. Needless to say, you gotta get out asap dude. Your life is waiting outside of your mother's arms, she has to let you go sometime. |
| Danielle Posts: 548/6737 |
He's 18, and has had quite a past with his mom and all.
Really Shyguy, don't let this not happen. |
| Riku Posts: 166/1823 |
What is your age?
I do think you should move out. Besides, living with your mom? I mean come on, how does that get any more embarrasing? (Of coarse I'm just comparing My Mom's attitude) |
| Deleted User Posts: 161/-7750 |
Yes. I'm doing the best I can to get by, educationwise. My brother's going to help me maintain the new place. So I can do my thing and live my own at the same time. (With my brother being just there to help me off the ground.)
It's kinda like my brother being in the care of me, but I have total control of my neccesities and luxeries. And cleaning... and cooking... And finances. Stuff like that. Either today or later, it's the big time to get out the bad news. I'm so going through this. EDIT: Things weren't planned out as they should have. The area my brother located was crappy, and there wouldn't be any furniture there. What we're trying to do is try to get Allen, my other brother, and his girlfriend, and her kids to move out of their apartment prior to me moving in. As it is a one-bedroom apartment, and there are 4 people. I need it more than he does anyway, so I'll keep you posted about this. I WILL move, but not just when I planned it out to be. |
| Hiryuu Posts: 580/2480 |
If you have an actual viable way of moving out to somewhere that isn't going to screw you over in the long run, take it; get on with you life.
If you don't, you'll likely have a hell of a time getting off the ground to move out...or at least correctly. Not to forget, are you doing anything towards college/career? You going to be able to afford moving out on your own? |
| Deleted User Posts: 156/-7750 |
You're right. Mom is only going to keep doing this until I do something. Moving will be my best option. |
| MathOnNapkins Posts: 87/1106 |
Just leave. If you love your mom you won't shut her out completely, but there is no need to keep yourself miserable when have a viable option to get away. My only concern is that she might become worse when left all to herself. |
| Danielle Posts: 507/6737 |
I've followed your threads about your situation in the past... and I'd have to say your best option would be to move out.
It may hurt your mom a little, but she can't expect you to stay there when she's more of a trouble to you than a motherly figure. You can still visit her, call her, etc. if you move out... it's not like you have to cut all ties. Don't miss this chance. Who knows, maybe this will be the sort of slap she needs to wake up. Don't feel guilty because you're ready to get on with your life. You're 18, aren't you? Just take this for what it is. A great opportunity. |
| Deleted User Posts: 155/-7750 |
My brother came over today. He told me to quietly talk to him in my room. He asked me if I wanted to move. He told me that it is really in my best interests, and that it'll help my mom in the long run. I was kinda iffy. It's probably too sudden. Anyway, I agreed to move out of this trash heap that I live in comfort, to a nice kept up place where I need to manage my own. It will make Mom severely depressed to see me go. I don't want to see her sad. Aaron(my brother) told me not to tell mom yet, as she will try to discourage me.
It is in my best interests, though. I'm way too nice to live where we constantly have to move, and where my mom leeches my check for "her own purposes". If I DO move, then I will have a Christmas, I can live with my bro, and I'll be able to save up the last ack of my surviver's check. If I don't move, everything will be the same. Things will happen. And I won't have a Christmas..... I should move, but I still love my mom. She is very kind to me when she's not messed up. I don't want to see her sad, yet I don't want to live in garbage, neither. Should I go, or stay? I have until tomorrow to make up my mind. |
