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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 1/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| Ouch. Sorry, bud. You've fallen victim to the Teddy Bear Syndrome. It's a trap many well-intentioned guys fall into. If you're serious, your only hope is to destroy the friendship and FORCE her not to see you as a friend, but as somebody else entirely. Your choice. Personally, if I had feelings for her, I'd destroy the friendship. You only live once, man, so take a risk. You can always become friends again after four or five months, but you have to shake her image of you as a "friend" first. Assert some dominance. |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 2/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| Heh heh, it's good to know your exercising. It's one of the best methods of releasing endorphins. I try not to get depressed nowadays. It's a fight to the bitter end, you know? We're all going to die anyway, so try not to get pre-occupied with silly things like the past. It's about letting go and giving up any aspirations of immortality. You're getting older, your youth is vanishing with every second, so make the most of it before it disappears. Like, NOW. As for emotional disorders... I believe I am becoming VERY prone to anxiety, which is something very new. For me, my progress over the years: depression -> aggression -> anxiety. I can't help but fathom what comes next. |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 3/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| Well, how badly do you want her? And remaining friends while in love is not really healthy either. Perhaps she feels some "security/satisfaction" in having a friend that adores her, but I suspect you're totally wrecked by this. Try reading that article. It says it better than I can. | |||
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 4/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| How old are you? All I can advise is to bear it out. However, don't listen to your parents. There'll come a time when you have to break free, so be prepared. A grounding doesn't so bad... what does it entail? If it's just staying home, grab a book or something. |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 5/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| Wrath, will you consider supporting my Technocracy. Sub-humans will be condemned to death or eternal slavery. However, if you want to live in a (relatively) crime-free environment, move to Japan or Singapore. We can learn a lesson or two from them about treating sub-humans. |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 6/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| Send a death threat and freak her out. That should shut her up. | |||
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 7/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| Put your "rejection" tales and stories here. I'm interested in knowing how you dealt with it, what lessons you learnt, what went wrong, etc. When I mean "rejection", I mean having your advance turned down when approaching the opposite sex (or same sex, whichever way you're inclined). |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 8/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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Anya, you have it easy. Seriously.  Women are much less likely to be confronted with rejection since men are forced to do all of the asking.Hmmm.... the funniest story I can think of was asking out a married woman accidently. Lesson: Keep an eye out for wedding rings. This may not be applicable to most highschoolers... but once you're in college/university, it slowly grows to become a problem, particularly as you grow older and the pool dries up. |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 9/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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Trunxy, welcome to disillusionment.  Homer "Kids, you tried your best, and you failed miserably. The lesson is, never try." Become an urban guerilla and rip the system that's cheated you. That's the most honest advice I can give. The alternative is to suck as hard as you can... and even then, that may not be successful. Bart "I wasn't good at it right away, so I quit. I hope you're not mad." Homer "Son, come here! Heh heh heh... Of course I'm not mad. If something's hard to do, then it's not worth doing!" |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 10/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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Originally posted by paradox Woah... what!?!? How is this possible??? More often than not the guy falls into the accursed "lets be friends" void if he befriends a lady first before asking her out. One thing I learnt is that chicks view boy friends (notice the space) as "brothers". Would you date your sister? I think not. And I believe they may view boy friends in a similar light. So.... how'd you do it? Or are you exaggerating? |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 11/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| Tibia... http://tibia.4players.de It's a SNES-like online RPG... top-down 2D graphics, no sound effects, but it is free. However, it is VERY frustrating to play if you die often. Knight Online http://www.knight-online.com.my/ I'm downloading the client as I speak, so I haven't played it. However, it is apparently free and in 3D, and looks quite juicy. EDIT: Dammit... this thread is like a month old. Sorry. (edited by Ambigore on 04-14-04 01:52 PM) |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 13/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| I agree with most of that, but for one thing. Don't tell her you love her. I mean, if you haven't even started dating yet, that would be coming on far too strong. I agree. 90% of womyn are parasitic, life-sucking demons. Do not exhibit emotions. In fact, do not exhibit anything human except your wallet, your bank account and your car. But seriously, there shouldn't be too much of a problem with you dating a 15 year-old. Just make sure she's not emotionally-using you. Women look to mature guys for that kind of thing. |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 14/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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Originally posted by Kario Dude, "honesty" is Womanese for "STFU and say what I want to hear." You got played, man. Judge a woman not by her words but by her actions. Clearly she doesn't want honesty. Womanese is a difficult language to master. At the risk of being lynched by feminazis, women often say the opposite of what they mean. That is the key to understanding Womanese. |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 15/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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Originally posted by RoboticParanoia Nah, I'm cool, but I'm quite serious about womyn emotionally-using mature guys. Beware you do not become the "therapist" or "intellectual partner" in a womyn's life. This is especially the case if you're relatively older than her (or behave in such a mature way). |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 16/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| How do you know if your nightmare is RL and you sitting behind your computer, browsing the ACMLM forum is the dream? Maybe you spazzed out after realising your brother's suicide and escaped to this alternate reality where he's alive, hmmm? But actually, I sympathise with you. I had a dream a decade ago where my mother died, and I searched this bleak, grey, cloudy world for her. It's not nice. |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 17/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!! Do NOT become "friends"! God almighty... you're setting yourself up for a fall. Becoming "friends" is easy as you don't have to declare your feelings, but you're shooting yourself in the foot in the long-term. Just be straight-up. Wedge your foot in the door by chatting with her about a few school subjects, homework, events, common friends, etc. and then ask if she has a boyfriend. That'll pique her interest. But God almighty... at the end of the day, don't keep your "feelings" to yourself. Otherwise she'll just dump you in the "friends" category, and when you ask her out, her reaction would be "Lets Be Friends." Urgh... trust me on this, men and women view relationships VERY differently. I am not kidding. Women do not date best friends and absolute strangers. Keep yourself in the middle grey area if you're striving for optimum success. Oh yeah... pushing her emotional buttons is a sure-winner in winning a lady. If you're good in provoking emotions from people (perhaps by asking mind-blowing questions, or speaking intelligently, or you're just plain funny), chances are better. Ah, you know what to do. But just go easy... and I REPEAT, do NOT become mere "friends". You'll confuse "success" with friendliness, and that'll fuck up whatever chance you have left. |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 18/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| Yeah, you're right Jarukoth. | |||
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 19/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| As neotransotaku said, don't try to cheer him up. I'd murder you if you told me to look at the bright-side after a funeral. And sometimes people need solitude to lick their wounds. Ask the dad/guardian/sibling when it's appropriate for you to come over so you don't pounce on him at the wrong moment (call them beforehand, perhaps). But don't try to change his frame of thought too much... just take it easy with him. And be prepared for bouts of silence should you two be in the same room with nothing to do, and he's affected badly. The last thing you want is to make him 'act' social and happy for your sake. |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 20/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| Kick his ass again. And again. Make him regret his transgression badly. This is the most satisfaction you can hope to derive from the situation. And forget the bitch. She likes assholes, and deserves to get used. EDIT: Basically, you did nothing wrong except 'fess up to your "enemy" about your intentions in the first place, which was a pretty naive move. (edited by Ambigore on 04-28-04 02:50 PM) |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 21/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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Originally posted by Kefka Yeah, I've been thinking about that, actually. Do "pretty" womyn like assholes since they possess the ability to kick other people's asses and protect them from "losers"? sorry to hijack the thread. |
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