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Should I let my bf perform in Romeo and Juliet?
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Dark Vampriel

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Posted on 02-08-05 03:36 AM Link | Quote
Ok I need help to answer a question my bf asked me. After doing this play he went through the director wants him back to do "Romeo and Juliet." He wants to go through with it but he wants to know about how I feel about it though. To me it's a lose/lose situation whether or not what my answer is. He'll be upset and I'll be upset. I just want to know what the consensus will be by you people. The only things I don't like about it is if he goes through with it is the time apart and that I can't see him perform in the play.
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Posted on 02-08-05 04:11 AM Link | Quote
What is the problem here, he'll just be taking time awat from you to practice in the play?
A tad vague, but based on this, just let him do it.

I don't understand why you'd be upset..
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Posted on 02-08-05 04:15 AM Link | Quote
Uhm...isn't that being a tad possessive? I mean you might love him and all but if you can't let him do a play then something's wrong with that...even if it's one with the OMGKISSSCENE.
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Posted on 02-08-05 04:31 AM Link | Quote
With my luck he'll get the part of Romeo for the kiss scene. Which will cause me to go nuts cuz we haven't even kissed yet. *cries like Serena from Sailor Moon*
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Posted on 02-08-05 04:33 AM Link | Quote
Yeah, I'd say let him go for it.

It's a great opportunity for him, and he'll have a lot of fun doing it.
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Posted on 02-08-05 04:55 AM Link | Quote
If you can't trust him enough to let him be in a play (potentially letting him pretend to kiss someone else at worst), what's the use of the relationship?
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Posted on 02-08-05 06:36 AM Link | Quote
Yeah... Let him do it... Jasper's right, if you can't trust him to pretend to kiss someone, it isn't worth it to date him.
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Posted on 02-08-05 06:45 AM Link | Quote
Do it.

Amuse yourself in the realization that he is using his talent for stuff...And shit...
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Posted on 02-08-05 06:46 AM Link | Quote
Its acting. Let him be in the play if he wants to do it.

There is a huge difference between a real kiss and a stage kiss.
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Posted on 02-08-05 07:39 AM Link | Quote
I say yes...

Sometimes, you gotta let go of your partner to love them, even if it means risking your relationship, worse comes worse, it won't end bitterly unless you allow it.
But that's life and you got to learn to move on. It's good to think what's best for him and not for yourself.

Besides that, anticipation is also key to building fondness. You seem to be the kinda person who's always there and it can get pretty tiresome for him. In order to achieve a balance you must change every now and then.

However, if you should sense a hint of wierdness, look for answers immediatly.
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Posted on 02-08-05 07:50 AM Link | Quote
Holy crap Raven what you and Jesper said just bitch slapped me in the face. Yet touched me at the same time. I'm always here for anyone, is that a bad thing? I don't know it it's a good thing or bad thing that I can't read your post Raven without crying.
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Posted on 02-08-05 08:05 AM Link | Quote
...It's a play. You can find plenty of time to be together when he's still doing the play. Don't try to control his life.
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Posted on 02-08-05 01:43 PM Link | Quote
I think you should allow him do do it. Even if there is a kiss scene he doesn
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Posted on 02-08-05 02:05 PM Link | Quote
Who gives a damn if he's Romeo? It. Is. A. Puh-lay. Enunciate that. Smack it into your head a few times. I think you need it.

If you don't trust your boyfriend enough to do a simple play then you don't need to be in the relationship because you're getting worked up over something extremely superficial.
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Posted on 02-08-05 02:28 PM Link | Quote
What Yomiko said, come on, it's not even sure he's going to get the kiss scene
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Posted on 02-08-05 04:45 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Dark Vampriel
Holy crap Raven what you and Jesper said just bitch slapped me in the face. Yet touched me at the same time. I'm always here for anyone, is that a bad thing? I don't know it it's a good thing or bad thing that I can't read your post Raven without crying.


It's not a bad thing that you're there for him, I'm saying don't smother him or he'll get tired of you. I used to think otherwise but you gotta think of his needs, the way he feels, and his current position in life. If you don't feel as secure about it, be more open to him and he should be more open to you. Ask him questions...
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Posted on 02-09-05 10:12 AM Link | Quote
Well, what everybody else says.

Let him do it.

If you do, he'll know that you trust him, and he'll also get the life experience of being in a play and performing in front of people and stuff. It's a good experience to have, and he'll get a lot out of it.

Besides, you can always rehearse the play with him and be Juliet
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Posted on 02-09-05 12:11 PM Link | Quote
Aww Tarale that rehersing bit you mentioned about me and him will have to be way later in life but I still wouldn't mind it though.

Raven: Well we are opened to the idea of questions but neither of us doesn't know what to really ask each other. I mean we have asked each other questions before but we kind of stopped due to the loss of what to ask.

Plus, I already did give him my answer which is what the consensus agrees upon. Also, which is weird that only the people who vote yes replied and who vote no didn't.
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Posted on 02-09-05 04:32 PM Link | Quote
I like Tarale's idea and it's all beginning to sound good, I'm relieved!
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Posted on 02-10-05 11:19 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Dark Vampriel
*cries like Serena from Sailor Moon*


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