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Dark Vampriel

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Posted on 01-28-05 10:51 AM Link | Quote
First off I don't know what I want to do anymore i.e. get a job or go on with school, which then I don't know what to take. My bf has been saying it from time-to-time for me go do something and how can I do that when I don't know what I want to do?

Second, my bf just mentioned that he's been depressed while talking to me lately. He's reassured me that we won't break up, which just makes me think about it now. We both don't want to lose each other. I tend to say stuff which I don't think about until I've already said it to him.

To top it all off I'm too shy to talk to anyone really offline about this except maybe a couple of friends who are too busy with other stuff right now. It's something I should change but I just seem to can't force myself to do it. I've always been really shy around people. I really don't get into anything unless I'm forced or persuaded to do so. I've been reading a lot now since English 12 when I never used to really read that much.

I just feel so lost and confused right now it's not funny.
Ran-chan

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Posted on 01-28-05 12:51 PM Link | Quote
Hmm. Have you thought of what you think is fun to do? If you like animals you could be a vet or something.

You need someone to support you. Someone who can help you talk with other people about your problem.

Some people takes a little break before they start looking for a job. Maybe you should do that and figure out what you want to do. I think that
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Posted on 01-29-05 03:00 AM Link | Quote
The more you worry about losing your boyfriend or girlfriend, the worse it gets. I know this from personal experience. Don't worry about it, don't think about it, take your mind off it. If you dwell and get superprotective or supernervous, it will fuck you.

So just.. take it easy.
Dracoon

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Posted on 02-01-05 04:46 AM Link | Quote
I don't think it is a good idea to just completely forget about something Andrew. Everything that happens teaches you something, you just need to learn what it is teaching you.

Ok, first off, he said he wouldn't leave you and so he won't. Simple and probably meaningless, but you have to trust him. You'll be fine here I'm sure if you just trust him.

Second, choosing what you want to be is really hard to decide, you said you like English though, and you also said you were shy. Look at a few jobs that revolve around English, but not around people.

Third, and last, always choose to go to school if you get the chance. My brother regrets not going even though he is living a good life. For the first year, just take some basic courses, Math, Science, English, Social Studies/Government.

No one on these boards can really make the choice for you, we can suggest things, but ultimately you have to make the choice of what you are doing. Yes life can be tough sometimes, but you have to continue with it so it can get better one day. Remember, although it is night now, day's not that far away.
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Posted on 02-01-05 09:00 AM Link | Quote
Besides the points mentioned above, all I can honestly say is, don't cut yourself up like a christmas ham again. Cheer up!
Dark Vampriel

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Posted on 02-01-05 11:02 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by The_Raven
Besides the points mentioned above, all I can honestly say is, don't cut yourself up like a christmas ham again. Cheer up!


I never cut myself in the first place unless it was unintentional.

Math! I can't stand math, we're like enemies...

Dracoon: Yes I am very shy when offline and I should go on to school. Seeing as a few people have mentioned it to me already. Watch me not want to leave after getting off my lazy arse to go sign up for courses... it happened when I was in my last year of High School I didn't want to leave at all. Also, I loved the courses there that we could choose from seeing asthere was still some courses I wanted to take.

As for my bf worry I do trust him so I'll try not to worry about it.

Thanks for the suggestions people. *hugs y'all*
Ran-chan

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Posted on 02-01-05 02:35 PM Link | Quote
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Posted on 02-03-05 08:11 AM Link | Quote
Sorry for the cliche help, but the issue here is a need to relax and release anxiety. Just go out jogging or drink some juice in the bath or some BS like that to calm you down.
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