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Avardo Cheep-cheep Level: 23  Posts: 48/184 EXP: 61004 For next: 6719 Since: 03-15-04 From: England Since last post: 547 days Last activity: 149 days |
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| Well... It's about 6 months since my grandfather has died now... And I got over it, like any normal person would... In fact, I'm getting used to normal life again... But there's one thing stopping me... You see, my mother seems to be obsessed with my grandfather... And wherever I go, all I hear is "OH, granda would have liked that", or "Oh, if only your grandfather was here". That's annoying enough as it is, considering it's been going on for six solid months. But oh no... THat's not all. MY mam only feels happy, when we have 67 photos of my grandfather in our house (Yes, I got so frustrated, I counted them  ). There are 23 in the living room ,the rest scattered about the house. This obsession of my mother's is going to drive me insane!Has anybody else experienced something like this? And if so. Please... Tell me how long you had to put up with this... I don't think I can go on anymore with this... |
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Legion banning people for no reason sure is fun Level: 101  Posts: 270/5657 EXP: 10399737 For next: 317938 Since: 03-15-04 From: The Crossroads is under attack! Since last post: 5 days Last activity: 5 days |
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What's so bad about them trying to preserve the memory of your Grandfather? I think it's a very nice and loving act. Instead of forgetting about people when they die like so many do, they want to keep the memory of the good times they had with him. Don't be so sad that he's gone rather be happy that you had a chance to know him.  |
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Avardo Cheep-cheep Level: 23 Posts: 50/184 EXP: 61004 For next: 6719 Since: 03-15-04 From: England Since last post: 547 days Last activity: 149 days |
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Originally posted by Legion I am happy that I had a chance to know him... And I will always remember him... It;s just the level of obsession that my mother has over his departure... Even my grandmother has got over it now, and she's a bit tired of my mother's obsession too  . |
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Legion banning people for no reason sure is fun Level: 101 Posts: 271/5657 EXP: 10399737 For next: 317938 Since: 03-15-04 From: The Crossroads is under attack! Since last post: 5 days Last activity: 5 days |
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| It's probably just her way of grieving. We all have our different ways and many of them may seem strange to us. | |||
Kitten Yiffer Purple wand Furry moderator Vivent l'exp����¯�¿�½������©rience de signalisation d'amusement, ou bien ! Level: 135 Posts: 550/11162 EXP: 28824106 For next: 510899 Since: 03-15-04 From: Sweden Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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Well it looks like your mother really misses her dad. I actually found it sad...  And at the same time I can understand why it is annoying. It reminds me of the obession that my sister haves, thought it's an obession about an group. It have been like that for one-two years now... still as annoying. Originally posted by Legion True about that legion. My grandfather on fathers side died one year before I was born...  Tell her that you get annoyed at her when she says that, but go easy on her. Death is an serious thing... |
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pink-is-cool Red Paragoomba Level: 13  Posts: 32/58 EXP: 9495 For next: 772 Since: 07-28-04 From: Somewhere over therainbow Since last post: 438 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| Leave her be, let her get over it, that might be the only way she can get over it. | |||
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Xzion666 Master of the BANNED clan Level: 38  Posts: 425/642 EXP: 355806 For next: 14641 Since: 07-12-04 From: Mars. Since last post: 402 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| I think that eventually she willl start thinking less and less of your grandpa until she finally stops obsessing over it. That however might take awhile depending how close your mom and your grandpa were... | |||
HighSorceressDelial Buzzy Beetle DDR FREAK Slayer of Beasts Savior of Worlds Eater of Napkins Level: 31  Posts: 241/380 EXP: 181041 For next: 4322 Since: 03-15-04 From: Shimmering Waters Of Avden Since last post: 9 days Last activity: 2 days |
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| pink-is-cool, check the date (right above the post) before you post, and if it's over two weeks old you shouldn't post to it because then it's bumping. *closes* ~Delial |
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