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Bella

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From: Groovy Way

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Posted on 06-11-04 09:14 PM Link | Quote
What I've learned which I noticed before but never did anything about is never EVER relying on anyone else for what you want. Not even your parents . We were going to get this loan and the guy who was doing it for us told us it would go through and how he'd do his best on getting a decent amount of money. Well that was last month. Now he said it isn't going through. My dad wants to get it done through someone else since this guy was false advertising and stuff. It's not gonna be as much as it was before. So I can't get stuff I need like clothes and the other half of my drivers thingy, drivers training and a car possibly..so now I need to find a job which I should have continued looking awhile ago not quit just because we "might" be going to LA. What I'm saying is take matters into your own hands and don't rely on anyone for what you want..my dad always got me going on false hope my mom too though..so yeah..
Ran-chan

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Posted on 06-12-04 01:23 PM Link | Quote
Well, it
Bella

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Posted on 06-13-04 03:32 AM Link | Quote
Yeah, I know it's not the end of the world. My dad always does that though..he says he'll do one thing but doesn't do it at all..and my mom never says anything beause he doesnt want to listen to anyone. My mom says that she doesn't feel supportive enough from him too. She says that she'll give him one more chance since they have a "loveless"" marriage I'm guessing..blah
Keitaro

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Posted on 06-13-04 08:46 AM Link | Quote
that totally and utterly sucks.... That one guy with the false advertising...durr...people are so...meh :p well, I can't say I can relate, but I do hope things look up for you
MathOnNapkins

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Posted on 06-13-04 11:21 AM Link | Quote
Poor Bella. I wouldn't be so cynical if I were you. You can trust other people to get things done as long as you pick the right people and give them friendly reminders. Though I guess your parents have a few problems to sort out that might make that difficult. :|
Ran-chan

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Posted on 06-13-04 05:55 PM Link | Quote
Hmm...loveless relationships can never be good... He must involve himself in more things that your mother says...

I hope for your sake that they don
Bella

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Posted on 06-14-04 02:51 AM Link | Quote
I understand since it's been going on for awhile but it is sad that they've been through so much already. 3 kids, my mom stood by him when we had to go through those bad times where we had to care for my grandmother, and her drinking which she doesn't do as much anymore which is good. I hated seeing her drunk . Well yeah it is like a loveless marriage but I never see them hugging or kissing, or any other types of affection. There's something wrong when that happens right? The last time I saw them kiss was umm..when my mom was pregnant and let us know about it. My baby sister brought us back together and helped my mom get through things. Things are getting better the last few years without my parents having to care for another person. These things just take time I suppose..

Hopefully they won't seperate. I just tell my mom to do what she feels like getting a better job and going back to school. She gets depressed and it's REALLY easy to spot. I should get them to do more things together so it doesn't head down the divorce route..maybe...
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