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merc Paragoomba Level: 15 Posts: 5/75 EXP: 15873 For next: 511 Since: 03-15-04 Since last post: 504 days Last activity: 339 days |
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Originally posted by KawaiiImoto-e The first time is just that. The first time. Do you still remember the first time you turned on a Computer? The First time you shit yourself? Or the first time you played Videogames. You certainly will, but it's only special to you. Nobody else. I don't remember the first time I've done any of the things you've listed. Thinking hard about it, I don't remember the first time I've done many things. Of course, I'd be an idiot to consider my situation general enough to supply argument. I am simply encouraging a more objective look at what a first time an experience logically/concretely entails. And usually, it is not much. For the female in sex, the first time signifies a breakage of the vaginal wall- however it should be noted that given enough time this wall will rebuild itself. "First time" is mostly, like I said, a concept too highly cherished in our culture. Holding illogical importance in it is pointless, and sometimes even deleterious. Some people hold the first relationship they've had with a girl to be the one to judge all others on. What if the girl was a bitch, or controlling, or jealous? Holding that relationship in high regard for the simple fact that she was a "first" will have obvious implications in future relationships that needn't be there for any logical reason. I understand that humans tend to remember the first time. Humans also tend to get in fights over highway traffic. My point is we don't have to, and in these two cases, should not. (edited by merc on 03-16-04 11:31 AM) (edited by merc on 03-16-04 11:32 AM) |
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Uncle Elmo Hammer Brother Partly Sweet, Helpful, good at advice and a half decent writer. Also modest. Level: 49 Posts: 49/1062 EXP: 845899 For next: 37984 Since: 03-15-04 From: Prestatyn, Uk Since last post: 23 hours Last activity: 2 hours |
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| Sex is great, it's nice, and when you make love with a person you're deeply in love with, that makes it a thousand times better but to be honest when you think about it in the cold harsh light of day you think "Is that it?" I felt more cosy and fufilled just cudding up to my lover (clothed or not, although cuddling up naked makes you feel...closer somehow), than when we had sex. I was a virgin until I was 20 by the way, we saved ourselves for each other, and I think we both felt the same about it. Don't worry about not wanting to have sex, *shrugs* it's not that huge a deal, as long as you take all the precautions whilst doing it that it. You may want to have sex in the future, and then again you may not. It's your decision, don't let society do it for you. |
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Gameboy 64 Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 31/94 EXP: 22275 For next: 2468 Since: 03-15-04 Since last post: 516 days Last activity: 339 days |
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Well, thanks yall.  I don't I want to have sex in the futre, but I don't really care, but my friends in real life, "sex this girl that", I just needed to get this off my mind. But I do have one thing to shock everybody, even my lil bro, I never had an errection, not even once! I swear! *Plays Pok |
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Valcion YOU WA SHOCK Level: 50  Posts: 45/1139 EXP: 939607 For next: 7710 Since: 03-15-04 From: internets. Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 2 hours |
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| I believe there's medication for that now. I've been a virgin all through highschool. Sex is not the answer to all problems, despite what your friends say. For once i actually think you had a shining moment of intelligence. Don't mess it up. (edited by Valcion on 03-17-04 01:30 AM) |
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Anya The Exile Ultima Mezcla de Yin Yan Level: 98  Posts: 228/5337 EXP: 9530313 For next: 124040 Since: 03-15-04 From: South Florida Since last post: 2 days Last activity: 2 days |
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| I waited until I was 19, and I'm still with the guy that I first had sex with, and I'm fine with that, actually. | |||
Foom Stone axe Level: 13 Posts: 17/55 EXP: 9969 For next: 298 Since: 03-15-04 From: RI, USA Since last post: 347 days Last activity: 97 days |
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| Do I think about sex? yes. Have I had sex? no, not yet. Do I want sex? yes. Do I want it in High School? not really. It seems silly to me for some reason. Am I paranoid about getting someone pregnant, even with protection? hell yes. i wouldn't be able to live with myself for that ... but yeah... i think saving sex till you find someone special is a good thing. then again, would you be prepared for it if you hadn't already had sex? wouldn't want to screw up with the one you love... but how can you screw up sex? :p |
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Toxic in a sublime state of mind Level: 75  Posts: 236/2857 EXP: 3732709 For next: 94195 Since: 03-15-04 Since last post: 3 days Last activity: 8 hours |
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Originally posted by Foom Do I think about sex? yes. Have I had sex? no, not yet. Do I want sex? yes. Do I want it in High School? not really. It seems silly to me for some reason. Am I paranoid about getting someone pregnant, even with protection? hell yes. i wouldn't be able to live with myself for that ... but yeah... i think saving sex till you find someone special is a good thing. then again, would you be prepared for it if you hadn't already had sex? wouldn't want to screw up with the one you love... but how can you screw up sex? :p Nick, I think we share brainwaves. I'm have the exact same views on this....creepy (well, not really, because that's sort of a common set of thoughd) |
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Jarukoth  IRRATIONAL EXUBERENCE!!1! Level: 79  Posts: 13/3194 EXP: 4402011 For next: 177456 Since: 03-17-04 From: New Jersey, U.S.A. Shoes: Yes. Since last post: 8 days Last activity: 1 day |
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| I've gotta say, this is very uplifting. Good to know other people share my feelings on this matter. I've got enough girl trouble as it is without having my "co-pilot" getting in the way... Quite honestly, I think Foom put it perfectly. Then again, if SHE ever came up to me wanting something, I seriously question if I would have the willpower to resist... |
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eek2 Micro-Goomba Level: 7 Posts: 9/14 EXP: 1280 For next: 168 Since: 03-15-04 From: Cedar Point Since last post: 337 days Last activity: 337 days |
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| Damn, if I had no sex drive, my life would be so much better. Be glad you have a null sex drive, because I am at the opposite end of the spectrum and it overruns my mind. I think about sex. All the time. Every single day, every hour of the day. I have never had intercourse, but I have "messed around" on a few occasions, and all that did was to make my sex drive even greater. And the fact that I am 19 doesn't help out much. One of these days, my cowardliness (when it comes to girls) is going to vanish in a burst and something very unusual will happen: I will have a girlfriend. And again I will have someone who wants to be intimate with me. Not to go off on a tangent, but having graduated high school with few female friends and no girlfriend at all, and then finally finding someone who was attracted to my mind and body, it felt quite uplifting. I need that to happen again. |
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Koga Red Goomba Level: 12  Posts: 33/46 EXP: 7620 For next: 301 Since: 03-15-04 From: New Zealand Since last post: 580 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| I think that you dont really have to worry about it. If you dont want sex you dont want it. I dont really think any one can preassure you to have sex. If they do just ignore them. its your life. | |||
Lord Rahl Snap Dragon Level: 43  Posts: 21/792 EXP: 544657 For next: 20389 Since: 03-15-04 From: Temple of the Winds - Training Room Since last post: 43 days Last activity: 7 days |
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| I'm 17, and have never had sex. Hell, I can count the number of girls who talk to me on one hand. It doesn't bother me. | |||
Shiieru Goomba Level: 10 Posts: 17/27 EXP: 3423 For next: 991 Since: 03-17-04 From: The world's randomness capital Since last post: 576 days Last activity: 286 days |
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| Hmm... back when I was 11 or so, about the time when I started puberty, I seemed to have a sex drive, which seemed strange to me at the time. It's all but faded away now - it seemed to last a year or so, and that was it. (I'm guessing it probably wasn't a sex drive, rather a peer pressure drive!) Don't worry... if you're happy like that, then chances are you're fine I'm pretty sure it isn't coming back to me though, I'm not exactly the most sex crazed person ever  |
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Alucard Shyguy Level: 16  Posts: 63/87 EXP: 19426 For next: 830 Since: 04-08-04 From: Santa Clarita, CA Since last post: 533 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| Yeah...sex is way overated...i made a mistake with the girl i lost my virginity to... Stick to BJ's...they dont hurt anybody and they feel better if done right. Make sure you have sex on your own terms, not somebody elses. |
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Silvershield Slime Level: 30 Posts: 19/345 EXP: 153029 For next: 12840 Since: 04-11-04 From: New Jersey Since last post: 60 days Last activity: 6 hours |
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Originally posted by neotransotaku*thumbs up* Originally posted by Sofie |
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Felix Nipper Plant Level: 33 Posts: 135/422 EXP: 208347 For next: 20832 Since: 04-03-04 From: Canada Since last post: 224 days Last activity: 6 days |
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| Well, I'll be eighteen next week, and I have had sex before. Honestly, it's not a big deal for me. Of course, there are urges/it feels great/fine way to show you care/etc, but most of the time, I'd rather sit back with a book or a video game. Sex isn't a huge part of my life. Now, I suppose the reality of my situation could change drastically if I met someone particularly special. If that situation comes along (and I'm sure I don't need to say this), play it as safe as you possibly can. It just takes a few seconds to prevent something that could trouble you for the rest of your days. Originally posted by SilvershieldOriginally posted by neotransotaku*thumbs up* |
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Silvershield Slime Level: 30 Posts: 42/345 EXP: 153029 For next: 12840 Since: 04-11-04 From: New Jersey Since last post: 60 days Last activity: 6 hours |
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Originally posted by FelixI was just trying to dispel the inexplicable misconception that "Catholicism" and "Christianity" can be used interchangably in all cases  .Originally posted by FelixI admire your stance on this; I've heard far too much "If it feels good, it must be alright!" from people our age, and it's refreshing to hear a more mature and considerate approach. |
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RoboticParanoia Cheep-cheep Level: 23  Posts: 22/184 EXP: 60582 For next: 7141 Since: 03-23-04 From: Texas Since last post: 150 days Last activity: 150 days |
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| In my opinion, sex is an expression for love. It can also lead to the demise of a relationship. Have sex when you're ready, because SEX RUINS RELATIONSHIPS. And I expierenced this for myself once, and I wasn't involved in the whole dealy. |
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Cthulhu Rex Level: 36  Posts: 43/541 EXP: 302159 For next: 5951 Since: 04-04-04 From: R'lyeh Since last post: 123 days Last activity: 61 days |
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| I'm a lifelong-participant in abstinence. It supposedly helps a Buddhist along the path to Enlightenment, so I'll stay away. | |||
hhallahh Bob-Omb Level: 38  Posts: 107/607 EXP: 365476 For next: 4971 Since: 03-15-04 From: Portland, OR Since last post: 73 days Last activity: 60 days |
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Originally posted by Cthulhu Really? Siddhartha was a total manwhore. The "middle path", for him, required a taste of the extremes.. Anyways, nothing holds true about sex for everyone, and very little holds true for most people. Sex is generally better with love, but love isn't a necessity. The disconnect between sex as a recreational act and sex as a reproductive act that modern technology allows means that sex is increasingly not a big deal. |
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Cthulhu Rex Level: 36 Posts: 87/541 EXP: 302159 For next: 5951 Since: 04-04-04 From: R'lyeh Since last post: 123 days Last activity: 61 days |
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| Very true. People just don't care anymore. I'm still new to the Buddhist legendry, and am still studying up on it. I recognize the name Siddhartha. |
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