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Kasumi-Astra Administrator Level: 62  Posts: 307/1867 EXP: 1971846 For next: 12840 Since: 03-15-04 From: Reading, UK Uni: Sheffield, UK Since last post: 1 day Last activity: 12 hours |
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| Ambi, the posters on this board are quite free to "diverge" if they disagree with your opinions. You are free to your opinion, but you must accept that it is not shared with some people here. I admit that there are many women who carelessly mess around with guys' feelings, but they are in the minority. Such behaviour is firmly disliked by many people, including me, and is why I didn't like your liberal description of "Womyn" and such statistics. (edited by Kasumi-Astra on 05-01-04 04:17 PM) |
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Crystal Shards Keese Level: 19  Posts: 51/126 EXP: 34318 For next: 1459 Since: 03-23-04 From: Ontario, Canada Since last post: 95 days Last activity: 130 days |
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| Personally I don't like people who call themselves a womyn, either. They tend to go too far with feminism, a good example being the Michigan Womyn's Festival, which doesn't allow in transwomen on account of they're not 'real' women. Fuckers. | |||
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Yoshi Dude XKEEPER STOLE MY CAR KEYS Level: 79  Posts: 330/3271 EXP: 4572680 For next: 6787 Since: 03-15-04 From: give me a number folks. Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 2 hours |
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| How the hell do you pronounce Womyn. It's like how people talk and replace "you" with "u". It doesn't look serious, intelligent, or anything that commands respect. |
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Prier Archangel Administrative Priestess. NUCLEAR SUB WEEEOOOO Level: 119  Posts: 522/8392 EXP: 18790939 For next: 138352 Since: 03-15-04 From: Nerima Dist. - Tokyo, Japan Since last post: 1 day Last activity: 1 day |
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| Okay...could we get back on topic please, children, my god guys. From the start, I can honestly say that Legion's advice is probably the whole thing you'll want to go by...but I'll extrapolate a bit on it. Mike, I know I haven't really talked to you in either board or IM for a while but I do know who you speak of...and...like Legion said...there's really not a lot of easy things that I can tell you about getting over this anytime soon, because there really isn't. But I do know, that you don't want to drive deep into depression like you normally do when something goes negative in your life...I know you tend to do that quite a bit from the time I've known you on RR/TBB. I know not of the circumstances which brought you two to this point...but...if she chooses to stay friends with you, just be grateful for that much and work with what you have, at least that much isn't lost there...and if that doesn't work out and she's in a state where she really can't talk to you, or at least for now, don't lose all hope...at least you tried and at least you had the experience...you can't deny that you at least did that much. I'm pretty sure that this isn't the last experience you'll have in this department, regardless, whether good or bad, but that is strictly up to you for when you want to pursue it. Don't lose hope...it's never easy breaking up and it's never easy to deal with the rejection of feelings regardless...but that doesn't mean that you should give up afterwards. Not to say, you have to jump right back in after this, either. Just take some time for yourself to calm down...I'm pretty sure it'll be edgy for you for the next short while, but remember that there are others around when you decide to pursue this trek again. And like Leg said, don't be a stranger; if you feel the need to let out your problems, either on here or on IM, don't bottle them...just be sure that you let others know so they can help you out. It's never an easy thing to deal with, just like a wide multitude of things in life, but you'll get by. Just keep your chin up and hope for the best. |
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Kefka Indefinitely Unbanned Level: 81 Posts: 1203/3392 EXP: 4826208 For next: 166641 Since: 03-15-04 From: Pomona, CALIFORNIA BABY! Since last post: 4 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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Ugh... dude... how did you "date" someone via internet?  I just don't understand how that works... The people you have relationships with 99% of the time will be those you have a connection with in like... life... not on the 'net. Keep that in mind. |
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Lord Rahl Snap Dragon Level: 43  Posts: 270/792 EXP: 544657 For next: 20389 Since: 03-15-04 From: Temple of the Winds - Training Room Since last post: 43 days Last activity: 7 days |
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| Izlude, most of what you have said I have also gone through. When my friend Janni said "Let's just be friends", she meant that we can still talk and hangout like two good friends. I still hold her close to my heart, and have realized that the chances of us returrning to "couple" status is slim, but still possible. All I can really give you for advice is treat her like a good friend, and be a gentleman. At the least, she'l remain in your life as a good lady friend. I hope you find any of this useful. |
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Uncle Elmo Hammer Brother Partly Sweet, Helpful, good at advice and a half decent writer. Also modest. Level: 49 Posts: 312/1062 EXP: 845899 For next: 37984 Since: 03-15-04 From: Prestatyn, Uk Since last post: 23 hours Last activity: 2 hours |
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How do online relationships work? Pretty much the same as offline ones (i've had one of each, so I'd know  ). The difference is that people tend to be more open in online RL'sBack on topic, regarding the "let's be friends" thing. It's hard, VERY hard, as whie you keep her in your life, it's difficult to seperate her from a lover and "just a friend" and BOTH are different. My Ex and I are still friends, but she's a lot further away than she ever was, most of what we used to talk about is now taboo, and nowadays our conversations are on the level of "What did you think of Kill Bill". |
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Izlude Octoballoon Level: 22  Posts: 143/171 EXP: 54655 For next: 3695 Since: 03-15-04 From: Canada Since last post: 421 days Last activity: 14 days |
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| Hmm, yeah.. I talked to her again last night and she says that she wants to get back together, but not yet. She still wants to be alone and she's going to be busy for the next few weeks so we won't have time to talk or anything, so. I'm not sure about it though. Yeah, I'd like to get back together with her and hopefully things will work out until we meet and such, but she's unsure of her feelings towards me. She says there is definitely something there, but she doesn't know how strong the feeling is or what to call it. So.. I don't know. She has my mind full of doubt now about everything, and if we do get back together, things may just end up this way again. I probably will get back together, because I know it's hard to be friends with someone after something like this. I don't want to lose her, and if we are trying to get by as just friends, I'm afraid I will. Maybe it could work as just friends though.. I don't know. The way I see it, I don't think it would, because of how I am. I really don't know what to think anymore. I'm confused about the entire situation. I'm trying to think things out and figure out where I should go from here, but my head is clouded and I really feel lost. |
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Uncle Elmo Hammer Brother Partly Sweet, Helpful, good at advice and a half decent writer. Also modest. Level: 49 Posts: 318/1062 EXP: 845899 For next: 37984 Since: 03-15-04 From: Prestatyn, Uk Since last post: 23 hours Last activity: 2 hours |
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| At the end of the day it's up to you. |if you really do want to get back togerher, then do so, but do it for YOU and not for her. If you feel you can patch things up, then go ahead, but the longer you're together the more it hurts if you split up. |
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