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Apocalypse Red Cheep-cheep Level: 24  Posts: 109/203 EXP: 69055 For next: 9070 Since: 04-11-04 From: Australia Since last post: 482 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| Hey All, I have absolutely had it. I have two enemies, I absolutely hate both of them and I can't stand to look at them. One goes to my school, luckily he isn't in any of my classes, and he has never quite given up on making me pay for what I apparently did. Turning people against me, trying to get me into trouble, spreading rumors, the usual little pathetic attempts at ruining someones life. I hardly took any notice of it because it wasn't affecting me very much. However now it's startring to annoy me, he recently found out about me and my girlfriend, long distance relationship, and they used to be friends. Apparently she asked him out while she was drunk and he took it seriously. No one ver told him that she was drunk so he still thinks she likes him. So naturally he is disgusted to find out that I'm going out with the same girl that asked him out, while drunk. Ading to that he hates me being happy so all in all its not a good thing for him. So he decides to vent his anger out on her, ringing her up and abusing the hell out of her because she likes me and all that sorta stuff as well as sending her threats. This has got to stop because it's really hurting her and I hate to see her like this. What should I do? The other person is part of this group my family is in, unfortunately as I am part of the family I have to be in this group too. I can't stand looking at the guy so I spend whats supposed to be a holiday tryin to avoid him. I have tried many times to tell my parents that I can't handle being there anymore but i'm not sure its sinking in. Any advice would be much appreciated. (edited by LostAuzzie on 04-30-04 08:04 AM) (edited by LostAuzzie on 04-30-04 08:05 AM) (edited by Yiffy Kitten on 05-06-04 08:40 PM) |
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Kefka Indefinitely Unbanned Level: 81 Posts: 1161/3392 EXP: 4826208 For next: 166641 Since: 03-15-04 From: Pomona, CALIFORNIA BABY! Since last post: 4 hours Last activity: 4 hours |
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Question: what has the second guy done to you?  Also, um, with the first one... your girlfriend could always block his number or whatnot on her phone, assuming the only way he can get a hold of her is through the phone. |
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Wlokos Red Paratroopa Level: 22 Posts: 27/176 EXP: 54880 For next: 3470 Since: 04-29-04 Since last post: 11 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| I've had plenty of enemies... Some of them (well, mostly one) hates me because he thinks I was annoying and I think that he though I liked the girl he likes (I don't, I just talk to her becasue her locker is next to mine) So he tries to annoy me, but I haven't reacted, and he hasn't done anything serious, so I can ignore him. Anotehr one, A kid on my bus, would swear at me every day and sometiems try to hurt me physically.. One time he hit as hard as he could on the knee, which was not too hard but my knee hurts very badly when it gets hit, so it wasn't good.. Um, I'mtrying to help you out, but I think I got off track.. Anyway, trhe point was that after a few months of this I went to the princible and now he can't sit near me or my friends without getting in trouble.. until recently... Um, I guess my point is to take action against them, and if isn't too serious, then to ignore them. Good luck... |
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Apocalypse Red Cheep-cheep Level: 24 Posts: 115/203 EXP: 69055 For next: 9070 Since: 04-11-04 From: Australia Since last post: 482 days Last activity: 339 days |
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Originally posted by Kefka Basically the same sorts of stuff as the first guy has done, makin my life a misery. (edited by LostAuzzie on 05-07-04 06:05 PM) |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 24/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| Tell the first guy's parents. Simple as that. Hopefully they aren't your typical American couple who can't communicate/control their kids. | |||
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Apocalypse Red Cheep-cheep Level: 24 Posts: 116/203 EXP: 69055 For next: 9070 Since: 04-11-04 From: Australia Since last post: 482 days Last activity: 339 days |
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Originally posted by Ambigore Actually they are. He has this sort of control over them, everything has to be his way and they seem to allow this. |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 32/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| Well then, get an older guy to call him up and tell him to leave her the fuck alone. It could be a brother, older friend, anyone really, but he has to sound threatening. Don't underestimate such an action. Being threatened by a bigger guy isn't nice. EDIT: I've received this treatment myself, although it was the result of my words being mis-interpretted by the chick earlier. But yeah, I left her the fuck alone. (edited by Ambigore on 05-02-04 09:40 AM) |
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Ed Lantern Ghost Level: 42  Posts: 171/761 EXP: 512715 For next: 8647 Since: 03-16-04 From: Dublin, Ireland Since last post: 215 days Last activity: 25 days |
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| Is this first guy strong? If not, you can pound the shit outta him. I would try and give you mature advice, but it's not a mature guy you're dealing with. Or, you could ask your girlfriend to get some shit straight with him. |
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Apocalypse Red Cheep-cheep Level: 24 Posts: 118/203 EXP: 69055 For next: 9070 Since: 04-11-04 From: Australia Since last post: 482 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| I sort of discussed some of these ideas with my girlfriend and it seems that she doesn't want me to do anything, but I cant because I know how much it hurts her. Should I just let it go for now because it seems to have died down a bit now. Should I wait till it happens again? | |||
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Destiny Smasher Red Cheep-cheep Level: 24  Posts: 166/216 EXP: 77554 For next: 571 Since: 03-15-04 From: NOT HERE, thank the Star Spirits. Since last post: 368 days Last activity: 43 days |
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| OK... Seriously messed up here... Well, here we go, then. First, the family group thing. You don't HAVE to be part of any group just because your family is. Talk with your parents about it if it's really so bad, and tell them you don't like this other guy. Nextly, this other kid seems to have major issues. You've tried being NICE to him, correct? Once in a while, people will realize how stupid they're acting when you forgive them and treat them with respect when they're being a jerk- doesn't work all the time, of course. Oooooorrrr... Tell your parents, tell HIS parents, tell HER parents, tell anybody who can help out. I'm sure that SOMEONE can do SOMETHING. I wouldn't drop it if you know it's going to happen again. |
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Eclipse Red Paragoomba tinzeee Level: 13  Posts: 10/50 EXP: 8276 For next: 1991 Since: 05-03-04 Since last post: 541 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| So what did you "aparently do to this person". Seems to me that this person really hates you by what you said. I personally would ignore them and try not to cause anymore trouble by egging them on or telling others mean things about them, as this could lead to the person getting more angry and taking it on you. As for this second guy, like family events are a choise, if you want to go and socalise them go and if you don't then tell them. It seems your parents arn't listening to you or your not explaing yourself properly. You should always try and treasure your family and the things you do with them, no matter what they have done to you. I myself have yelled and hated myself alot but in the end 'they are my parents' and i love them no matter what happens. |
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Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76  Posts: 187/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
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| Yeah, you say that it seems to have died down. Let it go until something comes up about it again. Just be cautious. If it comes up again first you, your girlfriend, and that guy should talk it all out and get it straightened out. With the second guy. Let your parents know what the problem is specifically with being there if you haven't already. Maybe they can help take action on it. |
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Apocalypse Red Cheep-cheep Level: 24 Posts: 121/203 EXP: 69055 For next: 9070 Since: 04-11-04 From: Australia Since last post: 482 days Last activity: 339 days |
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Originally posted by Eclipse Apparently I ruined his life by giving him a bit of helpful advice, you see he wonders why everyone bags him out yet he treats everyone like shit, and has no intention of getting along with any of them. So basically I mentioned this to him and tried to help out but he threw it right back in my face saying "no one else seems to care, it seems like it's just you" At this stage I am just leaving it till something else happens cause it seems like he might have finally gotten over it. It's what my girlfriend wants me to do and I don't think she really wants to talk to him now either so I'm just going to leave it. Thanks for all the help and I will post again if something new comes up. |
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Eclipse Red Paragoomba tinzeee Level: 13 Posts: 33/50 EXP: 8276 For next: 1991 Since: 05-03-04 Since last post: 541 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| 1# Like what Bella said, try talking it out with your girlfriend that person and yourself and see if you all can work out a solution. People in fights like this or others can misinterpritate what happens. In this case chinese whispers can occur were you all could get the wrong info or something. 2# And are your parents contolling? Just say no you don't feel like going I'm sure they should understand. And tell them straight that you don't like the person and what he/she has done to you or why you hate this person. |
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Apocalypse Red Cheep-cheep Level: 24 Posts: 126/203 EXP: 69055 For next: 9070 Since: 04-11-04 From: Australia Since last post: 482 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| Well with the first guy I don't need to worry bout it anymore because me and my girlfriend broke up (not for that reason) and thats it. I'm not upset about it because I have realised it wasn't much of a relationship and had I stayed in it I would have gotten hurt, she broke up with me but I'm happy with what has happened. As with the second I am resorting to refusing to go anywhere near the guy and i'm hoping my parents will respect that. I have had a long talk with them about it and hopefully they will understand. |
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blackfire Paragoomba Level: 14 Posts: 65/66 EXP: 12755 For next: 316 Since: 04-15-04 Since last post: 536 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| Ok guys if you want to hear the truth about this one read this. You see I know the truth about this whole event. I sat on the sideline and watched as Ryan aka Lost Auzzie slowly destroyed, the unnamed first persons, freindships with people. You see Ryan brought the whole enermy thing on himself. I shall tell you the story of what went down. We will call the unnamed person FFZ. Ok From what I saw the whole thing started when Ryan had a serious injury. He fell out of a tree and dameged his head. While Ryan was in hospital FFZ went a did the thing that all good friends would do. He went to the hospital to see Ryan at every chance he got. This was all good Ryan recovered and eventuall came back to school. On his reture FFZ did everything humanly possible to help Ryan out when help was required. Then came the inserdednt. A third person who I shall call HD came into the picture. Well she was in the picture for a wial but she didn't really do much then. Anyway She and FFZ were becomeing better and better friends. Ryan couldn't hanndel this and at the first oppertunity he got He hacked HDs MSN account. FFZ didn't know about this. So when FFZ got onto MSN one night he throught he was talking to HD but it turned out to be Ryan. A whole chat went on were what was suposed to be HD said some pretty narsty stuff. FFZ was looking for a third wheel to see if he should show this conversation to some people at school. He called Ryan thinking that Ryan was his real friend. Ryan knowing full well that it was him FFZ was talking to. Told FFZ to go ahead and show some people at school this conversation. FFZ did and lost a whole heap of friends out of it. If by now you are wondering how i know Ryan was the one on HDs account it is because Ryan couldn't keep the glee of what he did to himself. He Let slip that it was him. Thats when Ryan and FFZ ceased being friends. This whole thing left FFZ with little to no freinds. (He is now doing his best to repare the damage Ryan caused by repairing the freindships brocken.) Second thing FFZ is not taking revenge against Ryan. HE hasn't spocken to Ryan since the inserdent. He is not seending theretining messages to Ryan former Girlfriend and never has. Third thing the thing about the first person haveing control over his parents is bullshit. Thats just what he liked to think. And he only started getting this way after being Ryans friend. Ryan affected alot of asspects of the first persons life. As soon as Ryan left the picture he started talking to his parents again. Which everyone including him were happy about. Forth thing after the enermy inserdent Ryan started attacing my friends. He sent some really anoying emails to my friends trying to get them on his side. But in the end they saw the truth and blocked him. Another thing the reson Ryan did all this is because he is only able to handle one friend at a time. He saw the first person speacking to other people and becoming there friends and so he got angry. And stuffed up a good freindship for himself. My last word is the first thing I throught off when I heard all the goings on. And I now have the oppitunity to tell you Ryan - That accident must have done more to your brain than originaly thought. And whial I am at it i might as well say what has been on my mind since the moment i met you. You are an anoying little manipulative brad. Your parents don't understand you or talk to you because you don't talk to them. (edited by blackfire on 05-25-04 06:08 AM) |
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