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Apocalypse Red Cheep-cheep Level: 24  Posts: 4/203 EXP: 69055 For next: 9070 Since: 04-11-04 From: Australia Since last post: 482 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| Ok, I guess im just goin to get this out and see if anyone has any advice. My sad story starts halfway through last year. When I had my accident, which affected me both physically and emotionally, this was when I broke my neck. Luckily I made a full recovery in the short space of 3 weeks. Straight after this accident everyone was talking to me asking what happend how I felt etc. This went on for a few weeks and gradually died off. Eventually peole got sick of it and I went back to being myself. For that short period of time I was quite happy, people actually wanted to talk to me. Towards the end of last year a number of major things happened which contributed to the way I am now. A few decisions were made. Some I regret others I don't. I made many enemies and lost quite a few friends. One being my friend for 4 years. Although I don't regret this as I am happier without them as friends I still find a few problems, I can't stand being near these people as they bring back bad memories and like to see me in a bad mood. To make things worse half of them still go to my school and I see them nearly every day. This year started off slightly worse, and I must admit it isn't much better now. Apart from the enemies I have at school I have problems elsewhere I'm happier at school than I am at home, surprisingly. This is due to family problems in which I find myself in a constant battle with the rest of my family because I don't think they are happy with the way I am. I try to see things their way but their way seems to be that I need to be socialising with their friends more. I'm different to the rest of my family and these differences cause all the fights. Finally my last frustration is my inability to get a girlfriend. As I mentioned in an earlier post, I am in a struggle to prove to this certain girl that I like them, I have tried actually asking them out but they haven't taken me seriously. Ultimately I'm not a very happy person. I do get councilling which has been helpful but it's still not enough I need your help to get back to happiness. And prevent myself from losing the important friends which are the only friends I have got left. |
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Dracoon Zelda The temp ban/forum ban bypasser! Level: 84  Posts: 329/3727 EXP: 5514391 For next: 147561 Since: 03-25-04 From: At home Since last post: 5 hours Last activity: 5 hours |
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| I think you should tell us the differences between you and your family since I have no idea what is going on there. As for the friends with bad taste. The final thing anyone can do to you and bring those bad memories back. You need to remember good times with other people when you start feeling bad like that. you also got to know tradagy brings more attention than kindness or some stuff like that. try to keep the friends you have now since they will make good memories with you. If they are true friends (which I hope they are) then they will like you for you and you will have a lot better time with them. As for the girl friend same problem here except I haven't asked yet. |
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Apocalypse Red Cheep-cheep Level: 24 Posts: 10/203 EXP: 69055 For next: 9070 Since: 04-11-04 From: Australia Since last post: 482 days Last activity: 339 days |
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| Basically, I'm more academic they are all the opposite. I like a certain group of friends they like other people and try to make me be friends with those people. They blame my being academic on my not wanting to socialise with their friends saying I do too much and have to take a break Their idea of a break is visiting a group of people I don't get along with and who like to see me in a bad mood. Thats basically it. |
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HighSorceressDelial Buzzy Beetle DDR FREAK Slayer of Beasts Savior of Worlds Eater of Napkins Level: 31  Posts: 72/380 EXP: 181041 For next: 4322 Since: 03-15-04 From: Shimmering Waters Of Avden Since last post: 9 days Last activity: 2 days |
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 Wow, usually it's the opposite with parents... Well what ever you end up doing just make sure your academics don't slip at all. You can't be friends with people you don't like, it just doesn't work. You're family will have to realize this eventually and just accept it. They can't run your life, but they can try. All you can really do now is try to make some more friends and spend time with them.~Delial |
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Apocalypse Red Cheep-cheep Level: 24 Posts: 15/203 EXP: 69055 For next: 9070 Since: 04-11-04 From: Australia Since last post: 482 days Last activity: 339 days |
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Ok this is going to sound really dumb. But sice I have stuck with the same friends for so long, I have lost the ability to make new friends and keep them. I have also lost the ability to make solid conversation with a person. Please any advice thats intelligent would be much appreciated. |
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Yoshi Dude XKEEPER STOLE MY CAR KEYS Level: 79  Posts: 94/3271 EXP: 4572680 For next: 6787 Since: 03-15-04 From: give me a number folks. Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 2 hours |
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| then learn the ability. I know what you're getting at. when I moved away from my home i had a bit of trouble making new friends, it came as a shock. you just have to get out and keep trying. |
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Destiny Smasher Red Cheep-cheep Level: 24  Posts: 140/216 EXP: 77554 For next: 571 Since: 03-15-04 From: NOT HERE, thank the Star Spirits. Since last post: 368 days Last activity: 43 days |
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| O_o Well that's amusing... Oh, anyway! Yes, I'm in the same position. Are you in high school? Because high school is quite a rough time to try making new friends, believe me. I've heard that going to extra curricular activites helps, because when all else fails, you can always talk about whatever activity you're there for. |
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Apocalypse Red Cheep-cheep Level: 24 Posts: 58/203 EXP: 69055 For next: 9070 Since: 04-11-04 From: Australia Since last post: 482 days Last activity: 339 days |
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Never thought of that Although there aren't a lot of extra curricular activities around our school. Except Duke Of Ed but its too late to get in and it's not my kind of thing. |
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