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RoboticParanoia Cheep-cheep Level: 23 Posts: 16/184 EXP: 60582 For next: 7141 Since: 03-23-04 From: Texas Since last post: 150 days Last activity: 150 days |
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Are you supposed to feel paranoid that the next day you're going to wake up and hear the dreaded words "We need to talk." on your email/answer machine? I kinda feel that way right now...and I have no reason too, actually. I'm scaring myself. And that's sad.. |
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MTN889 Micro-Goomba Level: 7 Posts: 6/12 EXP: 1011 For next: 437 Since: 03-20-04 From: NY Since last post: 564 days Last activity: 339 days |
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I think that it is nothing to worry about that much, if you really care for another person so much, you should let them know that, but not only by words, but by actions too. | |||
HighSorceressDelial Buzzy Beetle DDR FREAK Slayer of Beasts Savior of Worlds Eater of Napkins Level: 31 Posts: 69/380 EXP: 181041 For next: 4322 Since: 03-15-04 From: Shimmering Waters Of Avden Since last post: 9 days Last activity: 2 days |
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No...you're not supposed to feel paranoid that the next day they're going to want to "talk". Maybe if there was at least a tiny little reason it would be more understandable...but not for no reason at all. There could also be a reason that you don't really fully realize but it's still bothering you. If you have a history of girls leaving you randomly though that would make sense too. How long have you been going out for? Sometimes the length of time affects how secure/unsecure you are in a relationship. ~Delial |
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tinzeee Permaban Repeated warnings and bannings about stupidity Level: 38 Posts: 143/618 EXP: 369695 For next: 752 Since: 04-02-04 From: Australia - Sydney Since last post: 553 days Last activity: 339 days |
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Try not to worry yourself, because if you worry too much then you might over do something that could lead for the "we need to talk", just think to yourself that everything is ok and don't worry. | |||
Apocalypse Red Cheep-cheep Level: 24 Posts: 2/203 EXP: 69055 For next: 9070 Since: 04-11-04 From: Australia Since last post: 482 days Last activity: 339 days |
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Originally posted by MTN889 I agree, it's not enough to say you like someone you have to prove it. Believe me I know. I haven't been in a solid relationship yet but am currently trying to get into one, and i'm still trying to prove to this person that I like them. My advice, if you continue with these thoughts of "we need to talk" try medatation. I know it sounds corny but it really works. |
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SnowTomato Goomba Level: 9 Posts: 4/21 EXP: 2296 For next: 866 Since: 04-11-04 From: NYC Since last post: 508 days Last activity: 339 days |
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I know what you mean actually... I'm with this guy who's done that to me twice before... I love him though.. and I get so paranoid sometimes that it's just going to end. He tells me that he'll never hurt me again.. but how do I know that? My advice is just.. try not to think about it too much. It's also good if you can get the source of whats bothering you. If you have a history like me.. then there's not much you can do but try not to think about it too much. If you're happy now with her.. then live in the moment and be happy. Don't be worried. I have a history of being screwed over.. my last boyfriend screwed this slut and was getting regular BJ's from another girl.. and I was with him for over 4 years. I never did anything past 1st with him either.. and that's good too.. cuz if I did.. I might have a disease or something. Anyways.. if I knew more about the situation I could prolly help you outt. If you've only been together for a short time.. then it's understandable to feel like that.. but if you've been together for a while.. then you should try to pinpoint a reason why you might feel that way. |
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RoboticParanoia Cheep-cheep Level: 23 Posts: 17/184 EXP: 60582 For next: 7141 Since: 03-23-04 From: Texas Since last post: 150 days Last activity: 150 days |
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I'll just think positive I guess. I know she likes my company...so it's all good. |
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