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Happybunnie84 Red Paragoomba Level: 11  Posts: 6/63 EXP: 5460 For next: 525 Since: 07-06-05 From: P-Town, Illinois Since last post: 102 days Last activity: 92 days |
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Alright... I have recently broken my ankle. My girlfriend, yes, I am a girl too... But my girlfriend doesn't seem to want to have anything to do with me now. I used to drive us places and stuff... But now that my ankle is broken, I cannot drive. I don't know if it's just me, but I feel like I'm seeing less and less of her. I try calling her... She is really short with me on the phone. Whenever I ask if she wants to come over and visit me, she always has some reason why she can't. My friend saw her at the mall, and got some pics on his cameraphone of my girl hugging another girl. I don't know if he was showing me those pictures out of context, or if she is cheating on me... But, I feel used and abandoned nonetheless. And help on what I should do would be appreciated.  KaT |
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Danielle Local Moderator  Level: 76  Posts: 729/3359 EXP: 3958078 For next: 47982 Since: 09-15-04 From: RATE Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 3 hours |
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| Well I don't think immediately accusing her of cheating on you is the answer, it is possible for her to hug a friend and mean nothing more from it. I don't understand what your ankle has to do with her acting like this, unless maybe she thinks she should let you relax until it's better. That's not the greatest guess, but it's better than jumping to conclusions. She might just need some space, as that sometimes happens in relationships. She could inform you of it though, to avoid you being bothered like this. I'd say to try your best to have her go to your house so you can talk in person about how you feel, and vice versa. Talking is always a good solution, avoiding isn't. Good luck with everything, and I hope your ankle gets better soon as well. |
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Happybunnie84 Red Paragoomba Level: 11 Posts: 11/63 EXP: 5460 For next: 525 Since: 07-06-05 From: P-Town, Illinois Since last post: 102 days Last activity: 92 days |
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I agree exactly on the whole photo thing. As far as I know, he could have taken the shot way out of context. It could have been one of her friends. I don't know. But the reason I am so upset by this, is I feel like she was just using me for transportation... Now that my ankle is broken, I cannot drive, and thus, I see less of her. That's why I feel used.  kAt |
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Thayer Fuzz Ball Level: 38  Posts: 63/988 EXP: 349428 For next: 21019 Since: 06-28-05 Since last post: 1 day Last activity: 1 day |
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Happybunnie84 Red Paragoomba Level: 11 Posts: 15/63 EXP: 5460 For next: 525 Since: 07-06-05 From: P-Town, Illinois Since last post: 102 days Last activity: 92 days |
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| Everytime I call her though, to ask her to come over and talk to me in person... She's always got a reason why she can't. And, she never talks to me on the phone... She'll have her mother tell me she isn't home, when I can hear her in the background... Oh, and I found out that she was on a date with that girl from the picture. I don't know... I'm heartbroken now. |
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Place Level: 12 Posts: 18/75 EXP: 7186 For next: 735 Since: 07-03-05 From: New Song Street Since last post: 58 days Last activity: 58 days |
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| How long 'till your ankle gets well enough for you to kick her in the flaming lips? | |||
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Happybunnie84 Red Paragoomba Level: 11 Posts: 16/63 EXP: 5460 For next: 525 Since: 07-06-05 From: P-Town, Illinois Since last post: 102 days Last activity: 92 days |
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| LMAO... Nice one place. Actually, alot time. I have to have surgery Friday, I'm going to be off of it for 12 weeks after that... They have to put plates and screws in it. I called and told her that if she had any hopes of staying with me, to stop by today. I'll pu $10.00 that she doesn't. Katie. |
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Ran-chan Moldorm eek, when are they going to stop growing... Level: 143  Posts: 10422/12781 EXP: 35293588 For next: 538220 Since: 03-15-04 From: Nerima District, Tokyo - Japan Since last post: 12 hours Last activity: 12 hours |
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Originally posted by Happybunnie84 If she |
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Happybunnie84 Red Paragoomba Level: 11 Posts: 20/63 EXP: 5460 For next: 525 Since: 07-06-05 From: P-Town, Illinois Since last post: 102 days Last activity: 92 days |
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| Well, Liz and I are now officialy broken up. She came over, I told her how I felt. About the car thing... Her response was, "It was nice being able to get out with you, and now that you can't drive, we can't have the fun we used to have." That hurt me alot. Well, I'm a girl with a broken heart... again. Will it ever be good for me? K |
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neotransotaku Baby Mario 戻れたら、 誰も気が付く Level: 87 Posts: 3460/4016 EXP: 6220548 For next: 172226 Since: 03-15-04 From: Outside of Time/Space Since last post: 11 hours Last activity: 1 hour |
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| given time...you'll move on; you'll just have to take it one day at a time...eventually events will occur that will lead you to be healed; patience will help you go through this dark period...and your friends as well | |||
Possessed Metal axe Level: 17  Posts: 37/161 EXP: 22987 For next: 1756 Since: 06-28-05 Since last post: 100 days Last activity: 94 days |
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| That sucks. I guess there are three options left. 1. Become her stalker and follow her everywhere she goes. Watching her every movement. 2. Kill her...perhaps through extensive torture 3. MOVE ON!!! So how do you like your options? I find myself leaning towards 2 but in case you are a little more legally competent you might just consider option 3. I know this isn't a pretty situation or a fair one, but as long as there is a single person left on this planet nothing will ever be pretty or fair. So think about what I have said and think about you options. |
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Ran-chan Moldorm eek, when are they going to stop growing... Level: 143 Posts: 10446/12781 EXP: 35293588 For next: 538220 Since: 03-15-04 From: Nerima District, Tokyo - Japan Since last post: 12 hours Last activity: 12 hours |
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Originally posted by Happybunnie84 Trust me, it |
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Possessed Metal axe Level: 17 Posts: 50/161 EXP: 22987 For next: 1756 Since: 06-28-05 Since last post: 100 days Last activity: 94 days |
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| K Trust me, it (edited by Possessed on 07-07-05 04:59 PM) |
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Bella Ludwig Von Koopa You're Gonna Love Me Level: 76  Posts: 1524/2962 EXP: 3891483 For next: 114577 Since: 03-29-04 From: Groovy Way Since last post: 8 min. Last activity: 6 min. |
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| Things will get better..if she just went out with you when you were driving then she was in a way using you to have fun..but now that you're hurt you know how she really feels. It's better to find out sooner than later. Its better just to remember what you've learned from this relationship and forget the pain there's more out there for you Focus on entertaining yourself to get things out of your head to clear your mind. |
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Possessed Metal axe Level: 17 Posts: 55/161 EXP: 22987 For next: 1756 Since: 06-28-05 Since last post: 100 days Last activity: 94 days |
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| Okay maybe Bella said it a lot better than I did. Maybe a lot better. Anyway, I agree with her there's more out there. I'd say 'there are other fish in the sea' but I don't think fish would help right now. What you need is some one who really truly cares about how you feel. You know other than thos weirdos on that one message board you get on sometimes. |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57  Posts: 1284/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| I have a quote that I basically believe is true: "If someone can cause those scars..there is sure to be someone who can heal them." -- Hatori Sohma (Fruits Basket) I know what she did to you was completely evil and I know I would never ever do something like that to anyone. You don't necessarily need to drive around to have fun. God she's stupid and when your ankle feels better just go kick her in the butt. Word of advise from someone who has had a very broken heart just earlier this year is that you can't completely forget the person. Sure you feel like you want to from all the bad things they've done but it's the good times that make you realize that you two had real fun together. But it will never be the same again just having the fun times in your memories is good enough to remember the person. Even if you never talk to them again. Hell I still remember past friends from elementary school that I haven't seen since then. |
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Arwon Zora Level: 35  Posts: 342/506 EXP: 278115 For next: 1821 Since: 03-15-04 From: Terra Australis Incognita Since last post: 5 hours Last activity: 10 min. |
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| It's gotta hurt, getting fucked around like that, and when you're in such an incapacitated state no less. You do seem to be handling it about as well as can be expected. I'm not sure whether the forced inactivity of being injured is a good or a bad thing at this point. Probably makes it harder to get over it and move on, but on the other hand you have an excuse for wallowing for a few weeks. All the usual platitudes about other fish and time healing... they're cliches for a reason, they're kinda true. Good luck. |
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