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MHL Red Goomba Level: 11  Posts: 34/38 EXP: 5360 For next: 625 Since: 05-27-04 From: Illinois Since last post: 62 days Last activity: 18 days |
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| This girl that I dated for 7 months and I kind of got back together in April. Right now, we are kind of in a "hold-off" stage. We kiss, show affection, "do stuff", and tell eachother that we love eachother every day. She is leaving for Africa for a church mission trip in 2 days and I will miss her terribly. I'm worried about her too. She says that she wants to be in a serious relationship with me, but I've been having weird thoughts lately. She's going to be a senior this year. I am a sophomore in college. I'm worried that she will probably just meet someone else and forget about me. She may just one day decide she doesn't love me anymore. She may not even be serious about wanting to date me. I've had this one feeling, like she is too pretty and too good for me. You see, I don't consider myself ugly but I don't consider myself a Tom Cruise. But she is drop-dead gorgeous; the most beautiful girl in the world, and I just feel like there are so many other guys she could like more. I mean she has picked me over so many other guys that are more handsome but I just don't know sometimes. I just don't want to get hurt again, but I also love this girl with all my heart. We are eachother's first love and everything just seems "right" with us being together. I've just had these thoughts lately that I think I should back away. I'm just wondering if these are normal or if I should pay attention to them. Am I not trusting her or am I paranoid? |
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Valcion YOU WA SHOCK Level: 50  Posts: 903/1139 EXP: 939607 For next: 7710 Since: 03-15-04 From: internets. Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 2 hours |
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| You're normal. Don't worry about it. | |||
Dei* Nipper Plant Level: 26  Posts: 49/412 EXP: 97995 For next: 4280 Since: 06-18-05 From: USA, Florida Since last post: 2 days Last activity: 1 day |
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Seems to me like you're being normal, it's nothing big to worry about.  |
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Danielle Local Moderator  Level: 76  Posts: 582/3359 EXP: 3958078 For next: 47982 Since: 09-15-04 From: RATE Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 3 hours |
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| If everything seems right, don't think that she's going to turn shallow and leave you because of your looks. She chose you over the "more handsome" guys because you must have a better personality and a bigger heart, and girls that are worth having know that. It's not all about looks, no matter what anyone says. Everyone worries about their partner staying loyal, but if you are in love, just take it easy. Don't worry about hurting her, because it seems like she's happy to be with you. Don't forget that. |
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MHL Red Goomba Level: 11 Posts: 35/38 EXP: 5360 For next: 625 Since: 05-27-04 From: Illinois Since last post: 62 days Last activity: 18 days |
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| We aren't even officaially going out. We really are just "on hold". In other words, we may officially date in the future but we still kiss, say I love you and such. I don't know I'm just having all these thoughts and they make me feel uneasy. | |||
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Danielle Local Moderator Level: 76 Posts: 605/3359 EXP: 3958078 For next: 47982 Since: 09-15-04 From: RATE Since last post: 3 hours Last activity: 3 hours |
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| ..Well why dont you "officially" ask her out then? | |||
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MHL Red Goomba Level: 11 Posts: 36/38 EXP: 5360 For next: 625 Since: 05-27-04 From: Illinois Since last post: 62 days Last activity: 18 days |
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| She doesn't want to be in a relationship right now due to stress, but she says that she will in the future. I don't see the difference really. She's leaving for Africa for two weeks tomorrow and I am going to say goodbye to her tonight. It may not be emotional though because she's been a huge bitch lately and I don't know why. |
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King_Killa Koopa Level: 15  Posts: 69/117 EXP: 15096 For next: 1288 Since: 06-13-05 From: Shangri-La Since last post: 37 days Last activity: 18 days |
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| wow, we are in the EXACT same boat. Me and my (ex)girlfriend are "on hold". She said she wants to date me in the future, but not right now. Instead of Africa, she went to New York. Here's the thing with my situation though. She broke up with me before, and she is the one that told me she wants to take a break on our relationship. I love her, but when she tells me she's ready, I'm not sure if I'll go back out with her. Both times she broke up with me, she told me she just doesn't feel any true love for me. If she asks me to date her again, I think I'm going to tell her that I don't want her to ACT like she loves me, but if she's happy with me we can go out without her saying "I love you" untruthfully. Wow, I didn't expect to say all that. |
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Jagori Flurry Level: 27 Posts: 223/267 EXP: 103625 For next: 12534 Since: 04-17-04 Since last post: 1 day Last activity: 2 hours |
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| As a general rule, you don't get to say if the other person is "too good for you." If he/she likes you, that's all you really need. | |||
Happybunnie84 Red Paragoomba Level: 11  Posts: 19/63 EXP: 5460 For next: 525 Since: 07-06-05 From: P-Town, Illinois Since last post: 102 days Last activity: 92 days |
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| I think... She likes you. She is just young, and doesn't want to commit right away. She probably doesn't... "love" you, she just has strong feelings for you. If she did "love" you, then she wouldn't want everything to be put on hold. I'm not saying that it's not possible for her to "love" you, just rather unlikely. My advice... You are in college, she's still in high school. You should find a girl that you can have a future with at college, that seems to be what you are looking for, a future. I know that the relationship I have with my girlfriend was once like what you are going through. It didn't work out for us. Best of luck to you MHL. K-T |
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Possessed Metal axe Level: 17  Posts: 49/161 EXP: 22987 For next: 1756 Since: 06-28-05 Since last post: 100 days Last activity: 94 days |
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| It sounds like paranoia to me. Not that i can spell it. But I listen to it myself. It keeps you safe. Not safe as in 'wear a helmet' but safe as in 'use a condum' safe. You know. If you love her stick with her. Wow I was going one way then suddenly switched to the complete other side. That's why I went back and put spaces. Good Luck |
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