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purplepower
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Posted on 06-08-05 07:21 AM Link | Quote
Have you ever went home on the last day of the school year, only to have your girlfriend dump you? And then she has the nerves to call you and ask to be "friends" just so she can see some other guy? Well my life has officially plumeted. This just plain sucks.
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Posted on 06-08-05 07:34 AM Link | Quote
You know what's sad? Things will happen in your life that will be 100 times worse than this. And they will happen frequently. Then you'll look back on this and realized it wasn't a big deal afterall.

Food for thought.
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Posted on 06-08-05 07:59 AM Link | Quote
I don't know your age, but the fact that you're still in school is enough. Though you didn't give a lot of information, I'm almost positive that you'll be able to get over this and wonder why it bothered you at all.
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Posted on 06-08-05 09:26 AM Link | Quote
Yeah, stuff sucks, blah blah blah.

Whatever doesn't kill you will make you stronger.

Might be painful now, and breakups always are. But you will get over it, you will be stronger at the end of it all, etc.

Going through a breakup myself, and they suck, but... I can think of worse things. Concentrate on the good stuff


(edited by Tarale on 06-07-05 04:26 PM)
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Posted on 06-08-05 09:33 AM Link | Quote
Do you think you can be friends with her when she has a boyfriend around. I would not let her be friends if she has another boyfriend around. Hell no! I would go seperate ways.
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Posted on 06-08-05 09:35 AM Link | Quote
I don't know if the "friends" thing works. It hasn't worked in any of my past relationships.

The pattern seems to be that things are ok, but awkward and you either... stop talking to each other entirely sometime, OR you decide to start dating other people and jealousy sets in.
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Posted on 06-08-05 09:40 AM Link | Quote
This is why relationships are so foolish ._.; I do not really get the point because everyone just becomes 'hurt'..I guess to be alone is sort of easier sometimes. Try it on for size =|
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Posted on 06-08-05 10:58 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Yoronosuku
This is why relationships are so foolish ._.; I do not really get the point because everyone just becomes 'hurt'..I guess to be alone is sort of easier sometimes. Try it on for size =|


Yea, but one can't keep taking the easy way out all the time.

Bes thing to do, is to move on, as Leg said it best, you'll deal with more shit, much worse than this in your life, so just suck it up and move on. You seem to be young, so just learn from this, take what you can from it, such is life. But at least she doesn't want to block you out of her life, and who knows, maybe being her friend can work out. Just because it doesn't work out for some, doesn't mean it won't work for you, to each is own after all.
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Posted on 06-08-05 10:59 AM Link | Quote
Bummer, dude. I've learned with my limited experience that mopping around the house like a mop may be okay for a day or two, but you just gotta realize that there are plenty of other fishys in the deep blue sea. As Austin Powers would say in an optimistic way: Your single again, baby!

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Posted on 06-08-05 11:04 AM Link | Quote
So you're in school aye? Don't let failed relationships bother you, pretty much 80% of school relationships end in disaster because most of the time it's just hormones kicking in making you think you HAVE to be with someone. It'll fly over soon, trust me.
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Posted on 06-08-05 02:42 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Yoronosuku
This is why relationships are so foolish ._.; I do not really get the point because everyone just becomes 'hurt'..I guess to be alone is sort of easier sometimes. Try it on for size =|
Listen to this women, please.
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Posted on 06-08-05 09:06 PM Link | Quote
relationships in school should never be taken serious at all. That's a little harsh but think about it--how many people after each school do you still hangout with? The number becomes smaller and smaller. Probability of relationships lasting is even worse. I don't mean to sound blunt but that is the truth of the matter. This is not to say that you shouldn't have relationships--they are one of the best experiences you could ever have. But moping for a school relationship is just pointless.

So yeah, it sucks now--you will get over it, and you will eventually find someone many times better than her (unless you two get back together later on in life--then just forget that last statement...)
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Posted on 06-08-05 11:10 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Ralphy Boy
So you're in school aye? Don't let failed relationships bother you, pretty much 80% of school relationships end in disaster because most of the time it's just hormones kicking in making you think you HAVE to be with someone. It'll fly over soon, trust me.


Thus why I waited till after high school to get into a serious relationship. The drama in school about relationships is enough, let alone the fact that all you hear is people gossiping about who's dating who, who had sex with who the previous night. Etc.

Trust me, I look at my previous breakups, and laugh at them now, because I can see that even if they wouldn't of broken up with me, I probably would of gave them the axe somewhere down the road.

Plus, would you want to go out with someone who doesn't want to go out with you or care about you. Think about it.
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Posted on 06-09-05 01:02 AM Link | Quote
Hey stuff happens that is life get over it there are many more people in this world. Besides if you get really bored you can allways commit Sepra Ku. But seriously it happens to pretty much everyone, so just learn from your experiences and move on with your life. Besides it isn't like she is going out with your bestfriend. Because then you would have to kick some ass. Anyway just wait a few weeks and then you will probably have forgotten all about what happened. Just have some fun on your summer vacation.
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Posted on 06-09-05 01:16 AM Link | Quote
Yeah when you break up it sucks..I think I never been dumped or barely had a relationship but you should be able to get through it BE STRONG
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Posted on 06-10-05 10:29 PM Link | Quote
It may be a pain when such relationships end, but i cannot say for sure since I never really had one.
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Posted on 06-11-05 07:22 AM Link | Quote
I don't care what anyone says... being dumped sucks, whether you're still in school or not. In my opinion, age doesn't change the pain you feel after being dumped or the love you feel for another person. The basic emotions are the same, don't let anyone belittle that. But it's all in how you react to it, which does change as you get older and (hopefully) mature.

I really do hope your summer isn't ruined because of this and you can enjoy the rest of your break. Who knows what it will bring?
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Posted on 06-11-05 07:24 AM Link | Quote
Mesia is my girlfriend.
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Posted on 06-11-05 07:30 AM Link | Quote
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Posted on 06-11-05 07:44 AM Link | Quote
Love is dead.
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