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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57  Posts: 1163/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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As of now my life feels like I've been living in hell for the last three months when my bf broke up with me. I was happy for maybe a day or so then BAM back into depression city. I finally got a chance to talk to me ex yesturday late afternoon about 6-ish. Like five minutes after we started talking I started asking him hypothetical questions about me and dying. Turns out he loathes me now and doesn't want to talk to me anymore. Also he doesn't want to be friends anymore as well.  Just before he gets off he tells me to get over him, seeing as he says he's already over me, and grow up. Like HELLO first guy I fall head-over-heels in love for takes more than three months to get over with plus it being my longest relationship. I still have no job seeing as I did get a job interview for the place I want to work for about three weeks ago and they said they'd call me back at the end of the week when I had the interview. Right now my parents has no idea what I've been through and I doubt they'd understand seeing as I'm being forced not to hang out with my best friend. I'm thinking I should tell my bf about what I've been through but I don't know if he'll understand. If I do tell him I know I'll start crying before I finish. I do know he understands about my parents not letting me hang out with my best friend though. Everything else he has no idea. I'm a little afraid to tell him about how torn I am over my break up. Seeing as I don't want to push him away from me. Also one of my guy friends has a crush one me since meeting me last year while I was still in school. I don't like him like that only as a friend and I don't find him at all cute. He knows that I have a bf too but he STILL wishes we were more than friends. Well the avatar I put in my signature tells a lot about me at the moment. |
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Mr. F-Zero Paratroopa Level: 20  Posts: 144/158 EXP: 40634 For next: 1805 Since: 09-09-04 From: London Since last post: 176 days Last activity: 52 days |
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You sound just like my friend, and her situation is pretty similar. I would have said to leave some more time before telling your ex how you feel but three months have passed already and any longer may endanger the chances of him wanting to listen. Try and talk to him in a position where he has to listen, and no matter how much you may feel like you are going to cry, don't, because it may alienate him further. Tell him how you feel, where you hope the relationship can go, and how he feels about things and what he is doing. Even if he says he doesn't want to know you anymore, stress the importance he has in your life and make him change his mind. That may sound silly and hopeful at best but unless he realises the extent to which you love him then nothing will happen. Its best to try, because not saying a thing will do nothing to the situation, and something is better than nothing. If he still doesn't listen or still doesn't want to be friends... well, fill us in if that happens.  |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1169/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| Well right now I just don't care about anything anymore. I just found out that my bf and I aren't official like I thought we were. He does like me but he just got out a relationship kind of similar to me. Not long distance but his ex gf basically was cheating on him while she kept saying she loved him. So now we talked about all that and I was very reluctant to talk about anything to him seeing as my wounds opened back up all the way after finding that out. I just wish that all my pain would just go away. | |||
Cruel Justice XD Level: 55  Posts: 820/1384 EXP: 1253266 For next: 60923 Since: 03-20-04 From: Darkwoods Penetentiary Since last post: 11 hours Last activity: 7 hours |
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| Please be patient. In time you'll heal and by then you should be all right. I know you'd cringe at the thought of finding another boyfriend but that's life. Once a ship hits rock bottom, you either sink or swim. There's no avoiding it thus you need to tink about matters more and act fast. Otherwise, he will care less. Like it or not, it will happen. I'm sorry you had to push through a lot of pain. Don't take the easy way out. You have more to look forward to than that. |
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Kles Red Paratroopa Level: 21  Posts: 108/171 EXP: 44517 For next: 5426 Since: 10-02-04 Since last post: 62 days Last activity: 45 days |
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| Time heals all. This seems like a love problem; love is not all of life. While I don't know how old you are, I suggest that you try to stick through it. You don't need to get married as soon as you legally can. Just go out there, get education, get a job and then you can find romance. Of course, if that doesn't help you then talk to your parents about it. You'll be surprised about what they do indeed understand. | |||
PeterGriffinTheMan Deddorokku Level: 29  Posts: 93/425 EXP: 137018 For next: 10867 Since: 03-02-05 Since last post: 4 hours Last activity: 6 hours |
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| Just take it slow and start your life to build up again. | |||
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1181/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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Well as of now my ex doesn't want me in his life nor talking to his mother. I pissed him off then he pissed me off for saying somethings. Like I told him he was a hypocrite for not wanting to be friends when he said we would still be friends after the break up. I told him I was over him which I am but of course he didn't believe me so I told him to go fuck himself. Even though I still wanted to be friends with him. Then I said 'koro yaro' to him which I know he has no idea what it means after he pissed me off royally. Right now I just wish for the most slow, painful death for him. I really do hope karma bites him in the ass for losing my friendship. Like I've said I've changed while talking to him while we were still going out but I've tried to act like myself except he seems to always bring out the worst in me. I feel like he's basking in the lime light with being happy with his new girlfriend while I'm out in the cold still trying to pick up the pieces and move on.  I swear someone should beat the shit out of him then he'd know what I've been through emotionally with a physical sense. I feel rather destructive but I can't do anything about it. So unlike me the shy, quiet girl to feel like just ripping someone apart.  |
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Mr. F-Zero Paratroopa Level: 20 Posts: 151/158 EXP: 40634 For next: 1805 Since: 09-09-04 From: London Since last post: 176 days Last activity: 52 days |
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| Lots of people who are quiet like to have violent streaks. I haven't been a fight in my life and Im not the most extroverted person, but I do sometimes have periods where I get extremely depressed and wish to just knife someone over and over and over again, and feel no remorse *please don't be scared of me*. Its good that you're angry and you want do something about the situation; of course to actually physically hurt him, as much as you may want to, would not be good but to feel that anger and to control it is a good thing. If he brings out the worst in you, then don't see him. I don't suppose you'd want to now anyway, but just move on from him and find someone else. |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1182/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| Hell no I don't want to see him right now but he lives in a different state then me so I guess that would be talking. He wants me out of his life since he's obviously happy without me in it. Right now I think it's a good thing that he does live in the same town as I do otherwise yeah I'd be doing something pretty stupid like beat the shit out of him with a baseball bat... if I could do such a thing. | |||
neotransotaku Baby Mario 戻れたら、 誰も気が付く Level: 87 Posts: 2941/4016 EXP: 6220548 For next: 172226 Since: 03-15-04 From: Outside of Time/Space Since last post: 11 hours Last activity: 1 hour |
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| your young, it sucks...that's life... i dunno, i can understand how life can be unbearable...i didn't have a too much fun during high school but i hung in there...things will change for a better--i think what you need more is a change of scenery from your school and enter college. Once you are in college, a whole new world is now open to you and things then should change for the better I hope. You can't supress your feelings or rush them to get better. They have to naturally change, otherwise, you will feel worse than you are now. | |||
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Cruel Justice XD Level: 55 Posts: 826/1384 EXP: 1253266 For next: 60923 Since: 03-20-04 From: Darkwoods Penetentiary Since last post: 11 hours Last activity: 7 hours |
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| Don't you DARE give up on life. If I had as good of health as you, I would be absolutely happy and dancing on my toes. You've got a lot of options and you'll be on your own soon enough. Take advantage of it all by starting your foundation. You can have a happy life if you choose to. Make it a great day or not. | |||
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1184/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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| If I do want to go onto college I have no idea what I want to take so I'm not in college. | |||
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neotransotaku Baby Mario 戻れたら、 誰も気が付く Level: 87 Posts: 2947/4016 EXP: 6220548 For next: 172226 Since: 03-15-04 From: Outside of Time/Space Since last post: 11 hours Last activity: 1 hour |
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| i see...well, college is one way to produce change. It my method of how I guess my life turned a little better. So, for you, you need some type of change instead of the constant environment you are at. There are some people I know who took a break from school so you could try that. in the end, my suggestion of change of scenery is what i think will help you the most right now. The sooner you can get a change of scenery, the sooner things will improve | |||
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1185/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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I have already been out of school for almost a year. Still unsure what to do or what classes to take.  |
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neotransotaku Baby Mario 戻れたら、 誰も気が付く Level: 87 Posts: 2959/4016 EXP: 6220548 For next: 172226 Since: 03-15-04 From: Outside of Time/Space Since last post: 11 hours Last activity: 1 hour |
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oh...i see (that is something i didn't know...) well then, you obviously know moping around isn't doing you good (hence, this thread). maybe for starters...why don't think think about what you did like in the past (before him) and try doing something with that? Like, what is something you haven't done since you were little? I dunno, I'm just throwing ideas out...it's up to you to act on them--if I knew you personally, I'd probably drag you out somewhere right now  |
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Dark Vampriel Lynel "Life is just a dream on the way to death." Level: 57 Posts: 1186/1658 EXP: 1400355 For next: 85573 Since: 08-29-04 From: Somewhere..... Since last post: 2 hours Last activity: 4 min. |
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You'd 'kidnap' me like my best friend would do if you knew me I take it NeoTransSolo.  I'm not really moping around just more like wanting to make my ex have a slow painful death. |
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