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Seph2k4

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Posted on 04-15-05 08:12 AM Link | Quote
OFF: this may or may not be worth ranting about, but I feel it's had a deep enough impact on myself that I feel I should tell someone about it.

Hear me out, people... this is going to be yet another rant about the so-called "abused victims", which now of course has a very special spot on the list for me. You wanna know how?

There's this Senior kid (strangely, he's not that "big", especially not for a Senior) who the last couple days (let alone weeks) has been pissing me off to the point where I am literally about to snap. He's such a sick, insensitive little bitch. It seems there's nothing he enjoys more than taking the piss out of other people, including myself, and I've seen him do it to other people as well. Lots of kids in my gym class (which consists mainly of other Seniors strangely enough) are complaining about him, yet not one of them has even tried doing anything about it, and I've decided that (no threats intended) it's about time somebody did do something about it, and if any one's going to do anything about it, looks like it's gonna be me, and I haven't ruled that choice out, since I feel like I'm on the verge of getting in a furious rage because of this annoying little prick. For weeks, maybe months, encounting, I've been putting up with this kid stealing mine, and other people's gym lockers, belongings, running his mouth whenever his gym class would play ours in dodgeball, let alone any type of team sport (except basketball; not much to fear there), constantly spewing lies and bullshit and rubbing it in my face like I'm supposed to believe it at all, and all sorts of crazy, fucked up shit... and quite frankly, I'm getting FED UP!!! with it. I want to do something about it, I just want to get this loser off my case, somehow, someway, but each choice leads to different consequences from the other, and it's a long road ahead either way. I can...

A- Just report these wrongdoings to the gym teacher or principal, and have them take care of it. While this almost certainly will settle these so-called "disputes" in the end, it could also backfire in a big way, since I have a case of autism and am just urged to fight back whenever someone's giving me trouble, not physically, but verbally, which is a bad enough case in itself for it to be held accountable by the gym teacher (ie: threats or swearing, or even just plain insulting and trash talking will do). Not to mention that it wouldn't sit too well with the majority of my gym class, who've been sticking up for me and telling me to stand up for myself in some way, and for once use a little self-defense, which leads me to my next choice...

B- Do the bad thing, be the bad boy for a change, and just plain fight him, "settle-it-like-men" so to speak. Most certainly not as school, since the fight would problably be broken up by the coaches before it's even over, and it would lead to big trouble for the both of us (and any "victims" as well. The school also has a rule against Fight Instigating, which to them is just as bad as actually taking part in one). While I honestly believe that I could take him in a fight, and on that, several others have said the same, I'm not so sure this is the answer. This gives me a chance to let out all my anger and frustration on this kid, and when it's all said and done, it could very well put an end to all this nonsense, but it's also risky business, as it would only make things worse on me than they already are if I lose. There's a lesser chance of getting into trouble simply by fighting him at one of his "familiars"' houses rather than at school, but the risk is just as big, and I don't know if I'm willing to take that chance. And some day, it could very well reflect on certain friends of mine, or girls I like (that's why I "backed off" of fighting last time; I really wanted to "get in touch" with this one girl, and the last thing I would want is for me to jeopardize that opportunity in any way).

So I don't know if I should just do the right thing (which is considered by many to be the "pussy's way out" of this) and report him to some one who can help (my gym teacher caught him "starting something" with me just today in class, so he might already know about this), or just fight him, settle out differences, and possibly putting an end to this little crusade for good. I'm getting so sick of this kid that I feel I should just "let him at it", and that simply telling on him may or may not be enough. I would always be told that "violence is never the answer" motive, and it could be either a legend or a myth in such a case that I just don't know what I should do.

*kicks and screams*

I...FUGGIN...HATE...THIS...KID....PISSES...ME...OFF...SO...DAMN...MUCH! *snaps*
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Posted on 04-15-05 08:33 AM Link | Quote
Here's an idea. Next time he starts up, turn and yell at him. To his face. Tell him to shut up, and that everybody's sick of his whining, stealing, etc. Most importantly: Make sure it's loud, that several other of his victims are nearby, and that you're well-within earshot of the teacher. Seriously...make sure you have fellow victims around and that a teacher will quickly come to settle this. That'll force the truth out that he's been doing it to many, that it's been going on for awhile. You may (likely, perhaps) have a chat with the principle...but the madness will end. Never, at any point, engage him physically. If he starts swinging, either dodge & block, or stand up fully erect & show 'im who's tougher physically and mentally (I shouldn't suggest this, but it certainly will leave an impression on others).

If you take my suggestion, you may want to prepare the loud rant before you start yelling.


Good luck, whatever choice you make.
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Posted on 04-16-05 12:26 AM Link | Quote
The awnser is freakin' obvious: Tell every authority figure in the school the SECOND he tries to steal from you or anyone else, or when he harrasses you again.

Who gives a flying fuck who thinks you're a pussy? From what I gather, the goal in mind through all of this is getting him out of the way. As long as you report him, you will accomplish this goal, and you won't get in any trouble for it.
Seph2k4

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Posted on 04-16-05 07:09 AM Link | Quote
I think that's only fitting, since apparently *I* got screwed over (as in told on) for doing something else a long time ago, and that was for swearing. Me and that one kid were having a rap battle (don't ask why; I hate rap! I did it just for the hell of it).

Thus, my gym teacher told me to tell him whenever things are bugging me, and furthermore, if I just go ahead and tell him when no one's watching (like before class starts), no one will know I did it, and things would be settled all at the same time.
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