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JR11 Rex Level: 35  Posts: 451/533 EXP: 278666 For next: 1270 Since: 06-07-04 From: Po-Town, ON Since last post: 1 day Last activity: 1 day |
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Seph2k4 Bob-Omb Level: 39 Posts: 541/619 EXP: 376086 For next: 28685 Since: 03-16-04 Since last post: 6 days Last activity: 6 days |
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| Oh, man, that's tragic man. I know how you must feel about this girl, resenting you for some one else, not knowing just how much his fine and sweet looks are truly deceiving her, which is quite much in such a case. I've been rejected for some one else by a girl I had strong feelings for before (quite recently actually), but at least it was for some one actually trustworthy, not some racist disguised as some one else entirely. There's maybe one small thing I could think of, off the top of my head, that may (or may not; it all depends on the nature of your surroundings) help. Next time you talk to her on MSN or even in person, try telling her that your friend acts the way he does, and if you can, try to get a "cover up" (as in, if at first she doesn't believe you, try using other people as witnesses to back it up) if you're that desparate. Best of all, not only will he be getting what he deserves, and end up not getting what he doesn't, most likely he will not know it was you, and if he gets that sort of feeling and finds that you're the culprait of it all, then it's just one less untrustworthy friend you've got there. You might want to think about trying that, and see how it goes. Normally people who are "less sociable" than others have a case of autism, which, to be honest, I have, and I always feel like I'm not that "sociable" kind of person this girl I've longed for is truly looking for in this world of hate, violence, and racism especially. I tried talking to her today at lunch, and made a mere attempt at landing her, which failed because I got nervous. I'm always like that whenever it comes down to talking to her and winning her heart over. I just don't know what to say, and often times I get tongue-tied when talking to friends (as in I get mixed up and studder) as well. With that in mind, it might be a good idea to "prepare" your speeches ahead of time so that you feel ready for her when the time draws near. If you're still feeling nervous, jitery, and just don't know what to say, try looking for others for advice, if you can. They might be able to help, that is if, they're willing to. |
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Ambigore Shyguy Level: 17 Posts: 95/95 EXP: 22388 For next: 2355 Since: 03-27-04 Since last post: 208 days Last activity: 10 days |
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| I used to be like you. You're probably too young to appreciate my advice, but I'm a blind optimist so perhaps a trickle will get through to you: 1. Women enjoy being dominated. Sprinkling roses wherever they walk, brown-nosing them, revealing your thoughts easily, solving their problems, etc. will not work. They are biologically-wired to admire strength. So grow strong, both physically and mentally. No crying. Bottle-up your emotions. You're a guy, so behave like one. 2. Women use men as much as men use women. We use chicks for sex. They use us for emotional support. If you believe you're not getting what you deserve, ditch the b**** and move on. She has a greater chance of admiring you (again, the whole "strength"/dominance thing. You don't need her, and she'll respect you for that). 3. Hone your inner-game. You sound as if your happiness depends on her. You've given all your power to her. Women hate that. Reserve your power and happiness to yourself. If she wants access to your world, make your demands explicit or tell her to go away. 4. Time's running out. Use the internet to study female psychology, evolution, gender studies, etc. Might as well study-up on the seduction arts as well. If someone gave me this information as a teenager, I'd repay him in gold. Good luck. |
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MathOnNapkins Math n' Hacks Level: 67  Posts: 1715/2189 EXP: 2495887 For next: 96985 Since: 03-18-04 From: Base Tourian Since last post: 1 hour Last activity: 32 min. |
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| ^ Pretty decent advice, though not all women are the same. The thing I hate most about dating is spending money. Make sure you've got a steady supply of that. I'm not really even thinking about any further dating until I graduate from college in a month and get a decent job. | |||
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JR11 Rex Level: 35 Posts: 453/533 EXP: 278666 For next: 1270 Since: 06-07-04 From: Po-Town, ON Since last post: 1 day Last activity: 1 day |
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 cough...(edited by JR11 on 05-26-05 10:50 AM) |
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